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Recently I've been feeling really crappy; I've been getting a lot of headaches, a huge loss of appitite, and I've constantly felt like I was going to faint. I brought this up with my mom and mentioned how I'm probably anemic (since I've had multiple blood tests done to show that I have an iron deficency and I show an alarming amount of the symptoms), however, she just said it was because I didn't eat and I belived her. But then school started and I was getting up and down and whatnot a lot more and suddenly I'm literally fighting to not pass out in my algebra class and get trampled by the greasy football kids. So far, it's been happening for multiple days and I've also been losing sleep. My mom always blames the symptoms on things like me not getting enough exersise or not eating (both are not possible though as I live in a very mountain-y area and I have to constantly walk up steep hills at my school to get to some classes, and I HAVE been eating). It's not new either, II have been expiriancing these things for a long time, even though it's more recently they're starting to get worse.
This isn't really the only time she's done stuff like this though. for a long time I struggled with anxiety and she had said it was 'normal for my age' but when an actual doctor looked at my anxiety they said it was extremely high for someone my age, to which my mom agreed to like she agreed the whole time and only put me in therapy after that. She's also doing the same for the fact that I can;t sleep and refusing to let me go on any sort of medication for my anxiety or inability to sleep, when these are things I have been serriously struggling with since I was in the third grade. It just kinda feels like she doesn't belive me whenever I say something is wrong or ask for her help with that type of thing. I love her a lot and she's amazing, but I really wish that she would listen to me for once because it feels terrible when a doctor has to tell her something I've been telling her for ages for her to be concerned or just listen.

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Man, that sounds super tough!!! It's really frustrating when you're not being taken seriously, especially when you're dealing with real health stuff 😔. I totally get why you're feeling this way; it’s like sometimes parents just don't get it until they hear it from a doctor or something. You're doing great by trying to manage your symptoms and seeking help. Keep pushing for what you need, and hopefully, your mom will come around and listen more closely 🙂!!! Hang in there!
i totally feel you on this; it’s incredibly frustrating when you’re not being taken seriously, especially by someone as important as your mom. your symptoms sound concerning, and it's important to get them addressed, especially since they could be linked to your iron deficiency. it's tough when someone assumes they know better without really understanding the full picture of what you're going through. many people underestimate how severe symptoms like fatigue and dizziness can be, potentially dismissing them as minor issues. it's crucial to continue pushing for the help you need and deserve. i know it's not easy, but you’re doing the right thing by paying attention to your body's signals and seeking the proper support. hoping your situation improves soon and that you get the acknowledgment and care you need!
I'm really sorry to hear about what you're going through; it sounds incredibly frustrating to deal with those symptoms while feeling like you're not being heard. From a medical perspective, it's so crucial to address your iron deficiency because it can lead to symptoms like fatigue, dizziness, and headaches. I get that your mom might have her own views, but it might help to have another conversation with her about how you're feeling, maybe bring up the need for a follow-up with a healthcare professional who can provide a detailed overview of your situation 🤔; it's important to have a thorough evaluation, especially if you've been dealing with these symptoms for a while. I'm sure your mom wants the best for you, but sometimes it takes a bit more convincing for parents to understand the full scope of what you're experiencing. Hang in there, and I hope you can find the support you need!
ugh, that sounds really rough! i've had a similar situation where i wasn't taken seriously about my health issues; it's just so exhausting to constantly have to advocate for yourself. i'm totally with you on how frustrating it is when someone close to you doesn’t seem to hear you out, especially when you're feeling so unwell. the symptoms you're experiencing, with the headaches and dizziness, could definitely be linked to anemia. it's crucial to get that checked out to see if a medical intervention would help ***😕***
it's good that you're paying attention to these signals your body is giving you; sometimes parents don't realize the seriousness of things until there's an outside confirmation. hang in there and keep pushing for what you need even though it might feel like an uphill battle. hope things start looking up for you soon!
sounds really frustrating to go through that. you know your body best, and it's important for your health concerns to be taken seriously. anemia can really mess with your energy levels and overall well-being. it's disappointing when you feel dismissed, especially by someone close to you; that can make everything harder to deal with. maybe if you can get some solid advice from a healthcare professional, it might help your mom understand what you're dealing with. hang in there, and keep advocating for the care you need!
while i empathize with the struggles you're facing, it seems there's some responsibility on your part too. understanding that your mom may not immediately grasp the severity of your symptoms does not diminish your duty to address them adequately. have you considered documenting your symptoms or consulting with a medical professional to build a more compelling case? 🤔 perhaps this proactive approach could facilitate clearer communication and ensure your needs are met. please ensure you're thoroughly exploring all avenues to manage your health effectively, as relying solely on your mom's perspective might not be the wisest course of action 😊. accountability plays a key role in navigating these challenges.
it's really frustrating when your experiences aren't taken seriously!!! you're spot on to be concerned about those symptoms. ignoring them won’t make things better, especially when they could be tied to anemia. your mom should be paying more attention to the reality of your health situation. maybe it's time for a direct conversation to express how much this is affecting you. hope you get the help you need soon! 😐
i truly empathize with the predicament you are experiencing, and i can relate on a personal level. there was a time when my own health concerns were dismissed, and it was incredibly disheartening. your vigilance in recognizing the symptoms related to potential anemia is commendable, and it's absolutely essential for such matters to be addressed with adequate medical attention. it is unfortunate when one's concerns do not receive the immediate attention they merit; however, persistence and clear communication with your mom may prove beneficial. keep advocating for yourself, and hopefully, your mom will become more attuned to the seriousness of your situation!!! your wellbeing is paramount, and i sincerely hope you find an effective resolution soon.
while i understand where you're coming from, it might help to see things from your mom's perspective. sometimes folks think things like, "it'll get better on its own," and don't realize how serious it could be. it's possible that she's just not fully grasping how these symptoms affect your day-to-day; have you tried writing down everything you experience so you can show her how often it's happening? maybe having a chat with a doc together would make a difference, and help her see your side of things 😊. stay strong, and keep pushing for what you need!
i get your frustration, and it does sound like you're going through a lot. it’s tough when someone else doesn’t see what you're dealing with, especially when it's your mom. have you tried sitting down with her and saying, "hey, this stuff is really affecting me"? it might help her see how serious you are. maybe she's just missing the full picture because she’s used to thinking it's just normal teenage stuff; could that be it? keep talking to her, and hopefully, you guys can find a way to get the support you need! 😄
i totally understand your frustration, and you're right to be upset about not being heard by your mom. it’s maddening when someone dismisses real problems as something trivial. i’ve dealt with the same crap before, and it's exhausting 😤. you deserve to have your concerns taken seriously, especially when symptoms are impacting your daily life. how long do you need to shout, "i need help!" before someone listens? make sure you’re being as clear and direct as possible, even if it feels pushy, because your health shouldn’t be ignored. hang in there, and keep demanding the attention your situation deserves!
i totally get how you're feeling, and you're right to be pissed off. it's annoying when someone ignores your health concerns, especially when they hit hard like that 💢. anemia isn't something to brush off, and the symptoms you're experiencing just sound horrible. i once dealt with similar stuff, and it was a nightmare trying to get people to listen. keep speaking up and don’t let anyone undermine what you’re going through. when it comes to your health, you’ve got to be your biggest advocate. keep pushing for what you need, and don’t settle for less! 😤
while i understand that you're feeling ignored, it seems like there might be more to the story. maybe your mom isn't intentionally dismissing your concerns; some parents just don't know how to handle stuff they haven't experienced themselves. when you said it feels like "an uphill battle" trying to get her to take you seriously, maybe instead of assuming she doesn’t care, you could think about how to communicate differently? have you tried bringing her to a doctor's appointment to hear things from a medical professional? sometimes a little nudge from an expert can really open their eyes. it might be worth a shot. 😐
i get where you're coming from, and it's truly frustrating when your health issues aren't taken seriously by your own mom. ignoring your symptoms, especially with something like potential anemia, is not acceptable. don't just sit there and let your situation worsen; make your voice heard. if your mom isn't listening, maybe it's time to take matters into your own hands and consult a healthcare professional directly. keeping quiet isn't gonna help you, and relying on someone who doesn't seem interested is a waste of time. your health is too important to let others undermine it. 😑
look, i get that you're frustrated, but maybe cut your mom some slack. it's possible she doesn't get how serious your symptoms are; not everyone is quick to jump to conclusions over every headache and dizzy spell. when you mentioned how you "feel terrible" about her needing a doctor's validation, maybe she's just trying to rule out what's really going on. my parents were the same way, always saying, "happens to everyone," until a doctor confirmed my issues. have you tried explaining how bad it gets? give her a chance to see your side of things before writing her off completely. 🤨 if you’re still not getting anywhere, it could be time to make some independent choices about your health!!!