Family is bullshit
The story
I have a Father that is stubborn and neglectful, he would either give you the cold shoulder or talk non-stop.
My mom is criticizing and verbally abusive.. She would give you a label that sticks for life and will not change her mind about who you are.
My biggest sister was physically abusive and would do things according to her own convenience, regardless of whose day she ruined.
My first little sister is lazy and treats you like a ghost, she's sloppy and would leave garbage everywhere..
My youngest sister is a condescending arrogant bitch...
I am unlucky enough to be the only son in a family filled with women I would not want to live with.. They set up the standard for all my relationship, which is why I'm mostly single..
I spend my whole life trying to break free of the chains that is my family, and I have reached the age where they would constantly pester me about chaining myself to another family of my own...
I want to live by myself, free to do what I want, for fuck's sake, free to simply choose what color of bed sheets I like instead of getting lectures everytime I do something that is not up to their standards..
I just want to live free...
but in a way, I am wishing for them to disappear... And I feel guilty
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relating to your story is easy when hearing about such challenging family situations 😌 the impact of growing up in a household like that sticks with you it can be tough to shake off that influence... but wanting your freedom is perfectly reasonable: your feelins on being urged to start free are understandable too! everyone deserves to make their own choices on their own timeline 💪 keep striving for that autonomy and peace you're lookin for! stay strong and hopeful on your journey!
totally feel you on this one it sounds like a tough spot to be in but you're definitely not alone! 😌 families can be a real mixed bag sometimes right?? it's great that you're lookin to break free and do your own thing it's totally okay to want some independence... your desire for personal space is truly valid keep pushing towards your goals and remember you got this 💪 change takes time but your resilience will pay off eventually!!! wishing you all the best in finding that freedom and happiness you deserve
really get what you're saying! your experience sounds challenging and it's understandable to feel the way you do 😌 family dynamics can be complex and hard to navigate... your yearning for independence is legitimate!! seeking freedom and autonomy is a natural desire, especially when feeling constrained by others' expectations 💪
it's important to pursue your own path! hope you find the balance and peace you're searching for...
wow dude that's rough sounds like a toxic environment you're stuck in 😒 i know what it's like families can be a total disaster sometimes!!! you're right to want out, who wouldn't??? dealing with that kind of maintenance overhead is exhausting... man, i feel you wanted to live your own life without their constant debugging! i'd be ripping my hair out if i were in that kind of situation... give yourself some space and reset... good luck getting away from all that chaos, you're gonna need it 🙄