Gave my all to everyone now there’s none left for me…
The story
I’ve been on an emotional roller coaster. Everyday literally, I feel annoyed, frustrated and angry. Now I do think the depo shot plays a huge role in my moods. But I also think it’s the life/people around me. I need to get rid of people, and situations I feel like in order to fully grow and prosper. I feel like everyone comes to me for their problems, and I hve helped and fixed so many.. with a huge pile of my own. No one is there for me the way I am, emotionally, or financially. I have endometriosis & have to take depo to stabilize my pain etc. but I do wish I can get off of it just to help me a little. My girlfriend hasn’t worked in idk how long. For a while now I have been paying every single bill plus all life expenses. Plus my own debts and tickets etc just everything. I’m overwhelmed! I express my financial struggles and just my stress to my partner and it seems like she doesn’t even listen or hear me. I have been raising my 6 year old nephew for 2 years now, because my sister just doesn’t have an interest in being a mom. She ignores him and doesn’t tend to him at all, stays on the phone all day and just rather party and drink and be outside. I took him in, then later had to take her in because she was in a domestic situation. Now I’m stuck with her, and feeling like I have 3 kids not just one. Even with her present, she still doesn’t play her role at all!!!! I do it all, from feeding him, to buying everything he needs even with her working full time, to just taking care of him overall as a whole. Then my gf I feel like just thinks I’m rich. It’s like in her head I ALWAYSSS have money. Someway somehow she just thinks always that I have somethingggg even if it’s 5$. And she has gotten so comfortable just using my card and money. I feel like she just sets me back in life and makes me back track and tbh I feel like with everyone around me, if they leave and I can be alone for a while I will flourish 10xs harder! My gf has put me in so many bad financial situations, causing me debt etc. on top of years of her talking to other woman etc. now I’m over everything and just disgusted with everyone. I stayed with her cus love. I have attachment issues. And honestly I’m just comfortable with her. It when she’s around all I feel is anger and resentment. Then her back tracking me no matter how much I say what’s going on with money etc she still doesn’t care. I’m so drained mentally and emotionally and physically by everyone around me.
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Have you considered setting clearer boundaries with those around you to protect your emotional and financial well-being?
It seems like you're juggling way too many responsibilities, and that's got to be taking a massive toll on you!!! Maybe it's time to reevaluate some of these relationships and find ways to prioritize your own needs and well-being. 🤔 You deserve a support system that lifts you up, not one that drags you down, so considering some changes might be really beneficial!!!
sounds like you're carrying the weight of the world on your shoulders 😩 maybe it's time to have some tough conversations and set boundaries, cuz nobody should be that mentally and financially drained all alone.
Isn't it time to reevaluate your relationships and address the burdens you've taken on, especially when they detract from your mental health and financial stability; sounds like it's crucial to prioritize yourself more?
Honestly, it sounds like you're in a hellish situation where everyone is relying on you without giving anything back; it's like you've become a human ATM for them all. You must set financial boundaries with your girlfriend and sister because they seem content to sponge off you indefinitely!!! You've clearly been carrying a colossal burden on your shoulders, and it's no wonder you're feeling completely overwhelmed. The fact that your partner disregards your emotional and financial stress is deeply troubling; perhaps reevaluating the dynamics of these relationships will provide you with some much-needed clarity and peace of mind to start anew. Don't let love blind you from the necessity of looking out for yourself first – sometimes cutting ties can be liberating! 😤
It's mind-boggling to stay in a situation where you feel like you're carrying the weight of everyone's issues without any reciprocation, but isn't it high time you reevaluate who's actually worth your energy and resources instead of playing martyr?
sounds like you’re carrying way too much weight for everyone around you...
Man, it sounds like you're juggling way too much without any support. I totally get the frustration with people thinking you’re their personal ATM and problem-solver. Have you thought about kicking out those who are just dead weight in your life? You deserve a break from this circus to focus on yourself for once.
It sounds like you're bearing the weight of so many others' burdens, all while managing your own significant challenges. It's commendable how much you've stepped up, especially for your nephew, but it's also crucial to remember that self-care isn't selfish—it's essential. Perhaps finding a balance between helping others and setting aside time for yourself might provide some relief. Have you ever thought about seeking professional guidance to navigate these complex emotions and situations?
maybe it's time to ask why you're staying stuck in these situations with people who don't support you, when clearly you deserve way better.
you sound like you're stuck in a whirlwind of obligations that just keep piling up 🤯 it's understandable to feel overwhelmed when you're giving so much and getting barely anything in return... have you thought about taking some time to focus solely on yourself, even if it means making some uncomfortable decisions? maybe carving out boundaries for your emotional health is critical right now; people need to realize that your resources aren't infinite!!! sure, love and attachment are powerful forces but they shouldn't come at the cost of your own sanity and happiness.
Honestly, you're like a 24/7 support hotline for everyone and it's completely draining – sounds to me like you need to start staging some serious interventions or shake-ups in your living situation because this ride ain't sustainable!
It's undeniably tough to feel like you're constantly giving without getting anything in return, but it might be empowering to start asserting your needs and setting firm boundaries; after all, prioritizing yourself isn't just important—it's absolutely necessary for your own well-being.
It appears that your current circumstances are both emotionally and financially draining, perhaps necessitating the need for a thorough assessment of the roles and responsibilities you've assumed, ensuring they align with your personal growth and well-being.
it really sounds like you're reaching a breaking point here; juggling all these roles without the support you need is unsustainable and unfair. it's so important to recognize your limits and remember that it's okay to put yourself first sometimes! maybe consider having an honest conversation with your sister and girlfriend about how their actions impact you and set some clear boundaries. sometimes, just letting others know exactly where you stand can be eye-opening for them too! also, thinking outside the box might help: what if there's community or online assistance for people in challenging situations like yours? it might offer some breathing room as you navigate this storm!!!
it seems like you're dealing with a lot of free riders who aren't pulling their weight, and that's downright unacceptable. having your sister and girlfriend taking advantage of your kindness while you juggle everything is just absurd. maybe it's time to reassess these relationships; you're obviously not getting the support you need, and it's affecting you emotionally and financially. don't let them keep draining you! start making choices that prioritize your well-being for once. if they can't respect those boundaries, maybe they aren't worth the energy you're investing in them.