get me out of here
The story
I'm struggling a lot right now and my grades are horrible but my parents refuse to show any compassion or get me help. they're fully aware that I'm not doing well and that I harm myself but they just don't care. they took all my electronocs and money to make sure I can't do anything until I fix my grades, and we all know it can't happen if I don't get better. they have been this horrible all my life but now it's worse than it's ever been. apart from the fact that they're incredibly strict they also love invalidating me in every possible way. I can't do this muc
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Wow, that's rough! 😟 It's like they're not really understanding that it's a cycle—how can you be expected to improve your grades without addressing the root of the problem? Do you think there’s any chance they’d listen if you tried explaining it from a mental health angle?
It sounds like you're caught in a vicious cycle where the focus is solely on grades without addressing underlying issues. This approach, sometimes referred to as "symptom-focused intervention," often lacks long-term efficacy. Have you considered seeking resources outside your home, like a school counselor or a trusted teacher? They might be able to mediate with your parents or help you find alternative support systems.
It appears that your parents are employing a punitive strategy, often described in psychological circles as 'authoritarian parenting,' which tends to focus on control rather than understanding. This method can frequently impede rather than facilitate personal growth and self-improvement. Do you believe there might be any avenue for opening a dialogue with them that centers on mutual understanding instead of punishment?