I am pissed with my family and unsure how to handle it
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Hi, hope that you're ok and holding it together to the best of your ability.
This is just a quick vent. Understandably, these are feelings that would just be temporary, I get that. However, there is clearly some challenge here that requires solutions.
I am trying to move out but that is proving quite an issue on several accounts: 1) I am in the country with the highest unemployment figures in the world. We have students with Masters Engineering qualifications unable to find work, 2) Moving out is not a priority in my house, in my opinion, 3) I am expected to work around everyone else's schedule, which cuts into my hours for job hunting, international scholarship applications, 4) You're seen basically like a traitor if you won't comply in that regard, but everyone else is allowed to be lazy and have their own hours for doing what they want.
There are other reasons but I feel these are the main ones worth highlighting.
I just feel trapped and unheard. I am confronting this issue with them today. However, there is still that fear that I would be ostracised. I feel a tad miserable because of this.
What kind of action would you use?
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wow, that sounds like a tough spot to be in. it's really unfair how you're expected to work around everyone else's schedules but can't have your own time for important things like job hunting. like, you should definitely have that space to focus on your future too! being seen as a "traitor" just because you want to carve out your path is honestly kinda harsh, don't you think? 👀 do any other friends or family understand where you're coming from and support your decision to move out? having even one person backing you can make such a big difference when confronting situations like this. hang in there!
It's truly challenging when you're trying to prioritize your future in such an uncertain economic climate, especially with unemployment figures so daunting; maybe considering a remote job or online freelance work could help balance the expectations and timelines you're facing at home?
moving out sounds like a monumental task given your circumstances!! 😬 it's quite frustrating when personal aspirations get sidelined due to others' priorities, especially in an environment that seems resistant to change. the job market situation you're describing is indeed disheartening but remember "patience and perseverance have a magical effect before which difficulties disappear and obstacles vanish." 🌟 stay determined and keep voicing your needs because your goals are valid and deserve attention!!!