I know am like her

i get you're going through a rough patch with her, but maybe there's two sides to this; sounds like there's unresolved issues; calling yourself a "bad person" seems a bit harsh 🤔; maybe try to find common ground, even if it's tough; sometimes people just don't see their own flaws; venting helps but can also keep you stuck in a loop; keep working on bettering yourself, it might help more than hating.

I've been dealing with difficult people all my life, so I get it, but your reaction seems pretty intense; perhaps there's more to this?!! Everybody has imperfections, and it's worth considering how you might also be contributing to the situation; harboring animosity often backfires and no one's perfect, so why not focus on self-improvement instead?!! I’ve found turning the other cheek far more rewarding in past disputes; are you genuinely working on growth or just deflecting blame?!!

i hear you, and it sounds frustrating, but it also seems like there's a bit of projection going on here 🤔; you mention being similar to her, yet you're blaming her for everything; who's holding you back from making changes or moving on??! self-reflection might be the key here, but are you really ready for that?!! it's easy to point fingers, but at some point, you gotta deal with your own stuff too!!!!

i know you're feeling overwhelmed, but it really sounds like you're projecting a lot here 😅; everybody's got flaws, right? but you've got to ask yourself, why are you letting her have this much power over you? "holding onto anger is like drinking poison and expecting the other person to die." why not channel that energy into something productive? personal growth is a journey, not a destination; have you considered finding a neutral avenue for communication?

i totally get where you're coming from. sometimes people are just hardwired to see themselves as perfect while pointing fingers at everyone else; i've been there too, and it's super frustrating. it's real tough dealing with someone who won't acknowledge their own flaws, especially when they affect so many others. keeping your focus on self-improvement is a good move though. cutting out toxic vibes is key. ever thought about writing down how you feel even if you can't say it to her directly? might help clear your head.

wow, sounds like you're living in a real-life soap opera 🎭; not saying your feelings aren't valid, but you might be letting her take up way too much headspace; "you're exactly like me" is the type of line that can keep a drama going forever. i've learned that holding onto grudges just makes you bitter, and who wants that? acting like everything's her fault might be your way of dodging accountability, in my opinion. think about stepping back and breathing—you might see things more clearly. ever tried talking to someone outside the situation for a fresh perspective? might help break the cycle.

man, i feel you! dealing with someone who thinks they're a saint but puts you through hell is just the worst 😤! "she's stuck in the fantasy that she's perfect" hits the nail on the head!!! some people just can't see past their own halo. it's like they create their own reality where they're the star and everyone else is just extras. been there, done that, and it's draining!!! sticking up for yourself and recognizing the BS is important, so kudos for not falling for it! what's your plan when you finally get a chance to step away?

dude, i totally get where you're coming from! sometimes people can't see past their own ego 🙄; "you're exactly like me" is just their way of deflecting blame, and that's not cool. you deserve peace and respect, not drama!!! i once had a friend who'd constantly remind me of my flaws just to make themselves feel better–cutting ties was the best decision ever. it's great that you're aware of what's happening. staying strong and focusing on yourself is key. any plans on how you're gonna handle things moving forward?

totally feel your struggle with all that negativity. it's tough when someone just won't see eye to eye with you; "she's stuck in the fantasy that she's perfect" really says it all. but dude, you're doing a solid job trying to rise above and better yourself! that's the way to go! keep your chin up and keep focusing on your own growth. people like that may never change, but you can change how much you let them affect you!!! have you thought of ways to set some boundaries? they can work wonders! 😊

honestly, it sounds like you're putting a lot of blame on her without fully owning up to your part in it. "i know i'm just as bad, if not worse," is a pretty big statement, but it feels like you're brushing past it. everyone has their own struggles and insecurities, and it’s not just about pointing fingers. i had a similar situation, and when i stopped playing the blame game, things got a lot clearer. are you sure you're not just projecting some of your stuff onto her? maybe looking inwards could give you a new perspective. it's not all black and white, you know?

you're making valid points, and honestly, dealing with someone so self-absorbed can be exhausting!!! i get why you feel the way you do; "you're exactly like me" sounds like a classic case of projection; it's important to recognize your own growth in all this, which is commendable! but have you considered how communication might look if the roles were reversed?!! maybe seeing things from that angle could offer a new perspective. how do you plan to keep your peace amidst all this?