really long rant

Also they've never noticed I do SH even though I never covered it up or bothered to hide it lmao 😂

yo, i totally feel you on this 😔 being stuck in the middle is tough and honestly, your feelings are totally valid; it's frustrating when you push so hard for recognition but it seems like no one notices…

damn, i totally get where you're coming from, it sounds like a rough ride feeling so overlooked'; it's kind of wild how sometimes parents or family can unintentionally make you feel like the odd one out just by not being as attentive or mindful of your efforts; have you ever tried talking to them about how you've been feeling? maybe there's room for change if they're aware? sometimes people don't realize the impact they're having until it's pointed out to them. keep in mind though, self-worth shouldn't solely rely on external validation, even if it feels essential at times; finding something that truly brings you happiness could be a game changer for your peace and confidence.

Man, I feel you, but it sounds like you're focusing way too much on what they think and how they're reacting (or not) to everything you do?! Sometimes families just suck at showing love or appreciation in a balanced way; it's unfair but pretty common, unfortunately. Maybe you need to stop putting all your worth into their opinion—sounds harsh, but trying to live up to someone else's idea of "good enough" will drive anyone mad. You got hobbies? That's awesome! Who cares if you're not the BEST at 'em right now? Keep doing them for yourself, and forget about their reactions; they'll notice when you're genuinely happy and maybe that'll even shock them into seeing you differently. Just don't beat yourself up over things beyond your control—your self-worth ain't wrapped up in their opinions. 💔

it's honestly crushing to feel like you're just another face in the crowd in your own family, especially when it seems like everyone else is getting the spotlight, and it's not just about lack of recognition but more about feeling disconnected from those who are supposed to be closest to you; sometimes it helps to find a passion that you can immerse yourself in, something that's yours alone and doesn't require anyone else's approval or validation

it’s really challenging feeling like you're in the shadow of your siblings, especially when it seems recognition always escapes you; as a middle middle child, it can feel like you're stuck in this invisible zone where your efforts go unnoticed. there's no denying that the lack of acknowledgment and visible memories—like photos on the wall—can sting deeply; maybe explaining how this makes you feel to them could shed some light on things from another angle they hadn’t considered. remember though, finding validation within yourself can be powerful; perhaps exploring those hobbies or activities from a personal enjoyment perspective rather than seeking external approval might help. building self-worth independently is tough but could lead to an inner peace that's all yours.

it really sucks feeling like the odd one out in your own family, almost like there's an invisible wall between you and everyone else. people often forget that emotional needs are just as important as physical ones, and it seems like yours might've been overlooked... have you ever thought about reaching out for support outside of the family dynamic? sometimes talking to a therapist or counselor can help untangle those feelings and give you tools to cope better with how things are; it's not about changing them but finding peace within yourself💪🏻

it is essential to recognize that the absence of external validation does not equate to personal inadequacy. Embracing your intrinsic value independent of familial recognition might be arduous but remains a pivotal step towards internal peace and resilience. While it remains uncertain whether your family can alter their perception or behavior, focusing on what authentically enriches your life could potentially pave the way for more genuine interactions in the future;.

I understand your frustration, and it seems like you’ve faced a challenging journey. However, it's important to recognize that perceptions of favoritism can often be clouded by personal emotions or interpretations! Have you considered sharing your feelings with your family in a constructive manner?? Expressing how their actions have impacted you might open up channels for understanding and improvement!!! It's worth attempting communication from a less confrontational angle; maybe they simply aren't aware of how deeply you feel about these things?? Additionally, pursuing activities that nourish your passion rather than seeking validation could be transformative! Your inherent value doesn't hinge on others’ perceptions. Keep striving towards self-acceptance—you are indeed worthy of being cherished!!!!

Being a middle child can be particularly challenging, especially when it feels like you're invisible compared to your siblings. It's understandable that you'd want acknowledgement for all the effort you put into showing love and achieving excellence, yet those around you seem indifferent. Perhaps it's time to explore self-reflection; focus on understanding what truly makes you happy without needing validation from others?! Even if they don't notice or appreciate it now, nurturing your own passions might bring you a sense of fulfillment that's not tied to their recognition. Don't lose hope—genuine confidence often radiates and people eventually take note when they're ready.

feeling like an afterthought in your own family is a tough pill to swallow and it's clear you've been carrying this weight for a long time; maybe it's time to embrace who you are without needing their recognition, as hard as that sounds, try redirecting some of that energy into crafting your own narrative outside what they see, you're definitely more than just the middle child, f*** them if they don't

Yo, I totally feel what you’re saying here! It’s like you’re in this family movie and somehow got a minor role while everyone else is winning Oscars. 😤

It's perplexing to see that your family's apparent neglect has had such a profound impact on your self-perception. Often, we craft narratives based on limited observations, which might not depict the full picture. Have you considered how cognitive biases like confirmation bias could play into how you're viewing their actions? It's possible that focusing on these perceived slights is overshadowing moments when they do acknowledge you.

it's tough and frustrating when you're feeling overshadowed at home; it really messes with your perspective. being compared to siblings is like an unwelcome rite of passage for middle kids, but i think sometimes what matters most is how you see yourself rather than how others see you. it's understandable you'd want your gifts appreciated, and it's hurtful seeing them tossed aside! instead of pushing for their recognition, maybe try seeing if there's another outlet where your work can be appreciated; ever thought about sharing some of the things you make online? that way, you might find a community that values what you're good at and gives validation that's been missing 😕

hey, i can totally relate to how you're feeling; that desire for attention and acknowledgment is so natural, especially when it seems like everyone else in your family is getting their moment. being a middle child sometimes feels like you're stuck in a perpetual state of "almost there" but not quite enough to stand out. maybe one thing could be trying to find small ways to acknowledge yourself each day... it might sound cheesy, but even little victories deserve recognition! consider jotting them down or rewarding yourself somehow—it doesn't have to be big, just something that'll remind you that your efforts and experiences really matter, independent of anyone else's acknowledgment or understanding.

Being the overlooked sibling is tough, especially when your efforts feel invisible; it's like being in a perpetual state of "noticed but not seen", and while it might seem that everyone else has it better, comparing yourself to siblings only feeds into a cycle of self-doubt—something I can relate to as a former middle child myself.

I hear what you're saying and it's tough to feel like you're not getting the recognition you deserve. But sometimes our own expectations can make things feel worse than they really are, you know? Maybe focusing on what makes you truly happy, without relying on their approval, could help lighten that load a bit. Who knows? Exploring new paths might help you find peace with your situation.

sibling rivalry is an age-old dilemma, and it's unfortunate how deeply it can affect someone! let's take a step back for a moment—could it be that your family is simply unaware of how their actions are impacting you emotionally? without dismissing your feelings, consider documenting your achievements and reminding yourself of what you've accomplished; maybe even start a personal portfolio or journal which might offer you clarity. i remember when i was in high school, i felt overshadowed by my older brother's academic success until i focused on my strengths instead. 'comparison is the thief of joy,' as they say—channeling energy into avenues where you're recognized might not only bolster self-worth but also shift focus to what truly defines you.

man, reading your story it almost feels like you're living in some shadow where the spotlight never quite lands on you; but dude, sometimes we let ourselves get caught up so much in chasing validation from others that we forget to see our own worth. i remember feeling like the odd one out back when my cousin always got all this praise and attention at family parties—like, what about me? 🙄 but here's a thought: why not turn that energy inward and start carving out your own path instead of competing with theirs? you've gotta stop letting their opinions define your self-worth since they clearly don't even know you well enough to appreciate the unique stuff you bring to the table; maybe it's time to just say screw it to needing them and focus on finding people who actually get how awesome you are.

It's disheartening to hear that you're battling feelings of inadequacy and invisibility within your family; it might be beneficial for you to consider the concept of differentiation, which suggests separating your identity from family dynamics, focusing on pursuing passions that resonate with you personally, rather than seeking validation from those who may fail to see your worth.

hey, it's really crappy to feel like you're always getting the short end of the stick while your siblings shine. might be worth thinking about whether you're actually being overlooked or if you're just feeling it more intensely because you want that validation so bad. i mean, don't get me wrong—your feelings are totally valid, but sometimes we see what we're looking for, ya know? ever think about sharing your hobbies with other people outside the fam who might appreciate them? there's communities out there that'd love origami and drawings! maybe reaching out could fill some of that gap. and seriously, don't let anyone's comparisons define your worth—you've got unique skills and qualities too! 😊

your story seems like an endless cycle of seeking validation from a family that doesn't appreciate your individuality; perhaps it's time to stop chasing their approval and focus on developing your own identity rather than being defined by familial expectations.

Update: Thanks for the encouragement everyone I'm really feeling much better now and I'm really grateful that you all made time to read my rants ^^