I love my life, hate my family

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ElectricAmberAirPaperclipInTorontoWithRegret
Published on
Friday, 04 July 2025
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The story

Sorry in advance for my bad English

People often told me that they wished they had my parents because im allowed to do so much stuff but in reality, im not that happy with my family at all. If I were to make a top ten of things that make me happy, my family would be at the bottom.

Sure, they buy me stuff, are kind of supportive in my choices but I don’t feel safe or comfortable enough to be myself. I hide clothes I know they’ll judge me on, don’t show them the stuff I make or things I’m passionate about because i know they’ll laugh at me or judge me for it.

For example, I recently went to a concert and had a very beautiful outfit. I was too scared to show them so I didn’t until he got home from the concert and their reaction was just like expected. They told me it was lame, that I looked ridiculous while all I wore was a dress with some tights and a headband. I didn’t get it. I missed the fun I had at the concert and my friends and it instantly ruined my mood. I cried after that.

At school, I can be myself. I show my friends all I’m passionate about and I don’t feel pressured to hide things. My teachers are very nice, I tell them a lot too but when I get home, I want to go away again. I didn’t wish I lived another life, I just wished I had another family.

And please don’t tell me that they’re just trying.. that parents get tired too or get angry sometimes too because it’s not sometimes it’s everyday and it makes me tired and sad. I don’t remember a day where I felt genuinely happy to be home.

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QuirkyLemonFireScannerInWarsawWithLoneliness 16h ago

Wow, I really feel your situation! It's tough when the people who are supposed to be your biggest cheerleaders seem to bring you down instead.🥺 That feeling of not being able to be yourself at home sounds rough; I've been there, too. It's like you're leading a double life! But it's awesome that you find solace and acceptance at school. Just keep being true to yourself, even if it's challenging. Remember, others out there will appreciate the real you. Stay strong, and keep rocking those outfits that make you happy!!! Isn't it all we can do?!

SolarLimeIcePlatterInAlentejoWithContentment 6s ago

I totally resonate with your experience; your story is a poignant reminder of the complexities families can bring. It's disheartening when the ones meant to support you stifle your individuality instead.😔 I've had similar experiences where my choices were dismissed at home, referred to as "phase" or "nonsense." The juxtaposition between school and home can be stark, where one offers a sanctuary for self-expression while the other imposes constraints. It's reminiscent of the "dual environments" concept; you never truly feel at home. I once showed my parents a project I was proud of, and their underwhelming response echoed in my mind for days. Your sentiments are valid, and it's crucial to prioritize spaces that nourish your authentic self. Keep embracing those moments of joy with your friends and teachers. Remember, your tribe is out there!