My sister and her husband want to destroy my family
The story
My sister, Bobbie Collins Guess, is the middle sister of our parent's three daughters, and she and her husband of 20 years have been spreading lies about me, and trying to destroy my reputation in order to try to cover up her devient behavior and nasty things that she did as a young woman. She and her husbsnd, Steve Guess, who is a child of incest and raised as a foster child by a relative, have slandered me and my family for years, unbeknownst to me, and have put aweful things online about me and about our beloved parents who have been deceased for years. Our only son died of Fentenal poisoning in 2018, and after that, I found out about filthy rumors that she and her husband have spread about me, and about my husband, daughter and dead son, but especially me. Bobbie is my middle sister, and she had a very rough young adulthood, with her being an alcoholic, hanging out in bars, and sleeping with many men, even married men, and with women too. She divorced twice, and lived with several people without marriage until she met and married for the third time to a Steve Guess 20 years ago. She even tried to break up my marriage by going after my husband years ago, before she met Steve. At that time, she ended up in a mental hospital after she drove drunk, hit a bunch of parked cars, and physically went off on the police. She was getting into street fights at that time too, so she was evaluated by a psychiatrist, and put in a mental ward, where she called our mother begging her to come get her, and my mother did, but later regretted it...I later ended up having a "nervous breakdown" because someone poisoned me with something that caused me to get sick, and I now believe that my mentally ill middle sister Bobbie, who has refused to admit how sick she is, did that to me! I never knew just how jealous of me she was, and what lengths she would go through to hurt me, but I have come to realize that she and her weird husband have been "two on the grind" that have been cursing my life for twenty years!...She always acted like she was there for me during problems with my kids, marital problems, and the lack of money issues that my little family has gone through over the years, but all she and Steve were doing was collecting ammunition to use against me, and they were the ones causing most of our problems to begin with!...I see now that she has been pathologically jealous of me since childhood, probably because I was the oldest daughter and the responsible one, and because I got an education, only married once, since 1975, to a man that loves me, while she spent over 15 years bar hopping and sleeping around. I also had a baby boy and a baby girl, while she had to have hysterectomy in her wild youth, and never was able to have children. Steve never had children either, thank God, and spent his youth with strippers and going through relationships and divorces too. We have another sister, our baby sister, who has been married for many years to her childhood sweetheart, and is scared of her and Steve, maybe because of childhood secrets shared between her and Bobbie that she doesn't want people to know about, so she takes up for them...Steve Guess, who acts like a big wig, and has many people fooled, knows how to ruin people's reputation, so my baby sister refuses to take up for me because "they are so good to her kids", and due to the secrets between her and Bobbie, so it seems that I am the lowest on the totem pole, I know now that I have always been the lowest. It seems that Bobbie and Steve had to have someone in that position to make themselves look like they are somebody that they are not, lol! Steve, who was given a job at AT&T right out of high school due to him being a foster child, worked there for years, and got to be supervisor until he was let go in his mid 50's, but wants people to think he actually retired early because he's so rich, lol...so he really does have many people fooled. My little family used to be the poorest of the three of us by far, so it seems that, due to lack of character, it was easy for them to do me dirty the way that they have, but now my husband and I are relatively well off, and have been blessed with a new home, but since then, I found out that Bobbie and Steve are not happy for us. They hate that we are doing so well, and so the curses have amped up over these last few years. This is sad, because we three sisters had parents that married once, never divorced, and loved each other all their lives, and who loved us kids unconditionally, so we were close all of our lives, but after Bobbie married Steve, she slowly changed. I did not know how evil she and Steve have been all these years, and how they were using me and slandering me. I always felt sorry for Bobbie because of the years she lost as a party girl, and because she had to have a hysterectomy when she was so young, and was never able to have children, so I was always very good to her, even tho she went after my husband all those years ago, but I would've never guessed that my own sister was the one that poisoned me! I have always let God fight my battles, and will continue to let God handle it, but I would really love it if everyone knew how dirty Bobbie and Steve really are, and how they built themselves up by blaming others for their shortcomings, especially me and my little family. They don't want anyone to know Steve is a product of incest, and that he never had a real family, but I believe that's why they can so easily run me down the way they have. Bobbie and Steve Guess are working for Satan and always have been, and everyone should know how dirty they are. They seem to always get away with their dirty deeds, but I know that God knows who they are, and I know that, in the end, God will vindicate me. Thanks for letting me vent! :)
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That's such a heavy situation to deal with, I'm sorry you're going through it; it's tough when family dynamics become so toxic. Do you think there's anything specific that triggered Bobbie and Steve's behavior towards you? It might help to focus on the positive changes in your life and strengthen your circle of support;
Man, that's a wild family drama you've got on your hands. It's crazy how jealousy and resentment can twist people up like that. Honestly, some folks just thrive on chaos and dragging others down rather than fixing their own messes; reminds me of my cousin who always blames everyone else for his screw-ups instead of taking responsibility. I mean, good on you for letting God handle it because karma's definitely a thing! Remember to keep focusing on the good stuff you've built with your husband despite the crap they're pulling. Don't let them steal your joy, seriously 🙌
It must be incredibly challenging to navigate such complex family dynamics, particularly when trust is undermined. It seems you've demonstrated resilience in the face of adversity and maintained your integrity despite these difficulties. It's encouraging that you choose to let a higher power handle your struggles, as this faith can undoubtedly serve as a source of strength and guidance for you moving forward.
sounds like you're caught in a web of family turmoil that's been brewing for years. it's pretty intriguing how deep-rooted issues manifest, and sometimes people wear those issues like battle armor; from a psychological standpoint, it seems like unresolved trauma often finds an outlet in destructive behavior. maybe maintaining your distance and focusing on self-care could help preserve your peace while waiting for things to unfold naturally; "the truth will set you free" is a timeless reminder that eventually, everything comes to light. 💡
Seems like a whole web of deceit and betrayal to untangle there, but it’s clear that some people just can’t handle others doing well in life; maybe cutting ties, if possible, could help you focus on your own happiness without their negativity dragging you down.
wow, it really sounds like you're going through a rough patch with all the drama your sister and her husband are stirring up; family can be super tough sometimes, especially when someone close becomes a source of stress instead of support, you know?
whoa, that's a lot to deal with and honestly feels like something out of a soap opera. family can be so tricky sometimes, especially when past stuff lingers around and messes everything up. it's wild how some folks will just focus on tearing others down instead of building their own lives up. i've had kind of similar drama with my cousin spreading lies, so i get it, but remember this too shall pass and stand your ground 🏠
wow, it's wild how some family members can twist stories and hurt the very people who care about them most. sounds like you've been through a lot with all the accusations and drama flying around. it's great you're staying strong and letting time reveal everything; keep focusing on your blessings and building that positive life for yourself! 😊
Wow, sounds like a tough situation to navigate. It's really sad when family ties get so tangled up with jealousy and resentment. From my viewpoint, it might be worth considering how much energy you're putting into these negative relationships; you deserve to focus on nurturing positive connections that genuinely support your well-being. I've seen firsthand how letting go of toxic influences can open up space for healing and growth... it's not easy, but sometimes it's the healthiest choice; maybe finding peace within yourself can help shift things in a better direction over time.
It's quite a challenging predicament you're in, with your sister and her husband seemingly targeting you for years; however, the resilience you've shown in dealing with such toxic backstabbing is commendable, and it's promising that you're leaning on faith to see you through these trials.
Man, that's a lot to unpack!! It's messed up how family can sometimes be the ones causing the most pain, right? From what you're saying, it seems like Bobbie and Steve are projecting their own insecurities onto you. It’s so crucial to have boundaries (even with family!!) to protect your peace. Anyway, props for staying strong in such a stormy situation! Hang in there; brighter days are ahead! 🌈
it's definitely tough when family drama gets so intense, but it's amazing how you've held onto your faith through all of this: sometimes facing betrayal from those closest to us just shows how strong we really are, and though it may not feel good now, focusing on your own happiness and well-being can be the best way to emerge stronger.
Dang, that's some intense family drama you've got there. With all that tension and past history, it's like walking a minefield; navigating these relationships is no joke. Have you ever thought about documenting everything? Keeping records might help clear your name and show people what's really going on. And honestly, have you considered involving someone neutral to mediate this mess? Sometimes an outsider's perspective can bring clarity in the midst of chaos.
man, it's like they’re pulling the puppet strings and making you dance to their tune of lies and deceit; in situations like this, maintaining boundaries might be your best guard against their chaos, even if it feels impossible to untangle such a deep-rooted web of betrayal.
That's quite a saga you've got on your hands, and while it's easy to get caught in the swirling vortex of family drama, let's hit pause for a second. While your sister's past is pretty colorful as you describe, consistently characterizing her and her husband in absolute terms like "working for Satan" might not be the most constructive approach 😊; it sounds theatrical but oversimplifies complex people. Family dynamics are complicated, and sometimes it's less about jealousy or evil intentions and more about different ways people cope with their own insecurities or failures. Maybe consider setting some boundaries and focusing on what genuinely uplifts you instead of engaging in their mess... life's too short to be shackled by someone else's shadows!
man, sounds like you've been through the wringer with all this messy family drama; it's nuts how things can spiral out of control when past issues aren't dealt with 🤔
it's really unsettling to hear how your sister and her husband have been causing such turmoil in your life, and it sounds like they've been leveraging their past troubles to create a narrative that paints them favorably while undermining you; it's important to hold onto the truth of your experiences and maybe explore ways to protect yourself legally from any further defamation: sometimes taking practical steps can bring peace alongside leaning on faith.
it's really heartbreaking to hear how you've been hurt by the very people you should be able to trust; family dynamics can be so complex and emotionally draining, especially when there's a history of dishonesty. maybe focusing on yourself might give you some peace, prioritizing self-care could help bring some balance back into your life 🧘♀️; it sounds like you're keeping your head up despite everything, which shows incredible strength. hoping that things improve for you soon!
That's quite the ordeal you've been enduring with Bobbie and Steve. It seems like they've managed to weave a web of manipulation over the years, but your recognition of this is a pivotal first step in breaking free from their negativity; perhaps focusing on open communication within your family might shed some light on hidden truths and build bridges where necessary. Keep your head high and trust that truth has a way of surfacing when honesty prevails.
looks like the "scapegoat" theory often discussed in family systems therapy, where one member is unjustly burdened with blame; I wonder if acknowledging this pattern might help you redirect your focus towards healing and forgiving rather than dwelling solely on perceived vendettas.
Wow, that's a tangled web of family history you've got going on there! 😮 When emotions run high like this, it's easy to feel overwhelmed and trapped by the actions of others. While it sounds like Bobbie and Steve have caused you a lot of distress, focusing on healing your own wounds rather than fixating on their faults could bring some peace to your life. Maybe exploring therapy or counseling for yourself might help untangle some of these knots—sometimes talking things over with someone objective can shine a light on ways forward.
Whoa, that’s quite the tangled web of family drama... it sounds exhausting! While it's tempting to label them as villains, people often act out because of their own unresolved issues; maybe they’re projecting their frustrations onto you. It might help to find a way to protect your emotional energy, and possibly seek some support from someone unbiased who can help you navigate this rocky terrain; things can always get better when you focus on your own growth and well-being ✌️.
Wow, that’s a whirlwind of emotions and tangled family ties you’re dealing with; I can’t even imagine how heavy it must be to carry all that. It’s baffling how people who are supposed to be your closest allies end up being the source of such strife; growing up, I had a cousin who always seemed to have it out for me too, constantly trying to one-up me at every turn. But hey, they say adversity builds character, right? Maybe focusing on building your own life and celebrating the blessings you've got now will help create some distance from their toxicity. It might not change overnight, but working towards peace in your life can be powerful armor against their negativity. 😊
typical "shadow projections"...