My sister and I are not compatible
The story
Everything this I say to this girl she trips. The reason why I am mad now is because she swears she knows me everything, this pisses me off so badd. So basically we’re teens and today I come home after 4 something. I get out at 3:15, the house is supposed to be clean, I come it’s not clean. When I tell her, she swear up and down she’s clean more then me, then my moms gets on my ass about the house. Tbh if they don’t care I don’t either. I may have anger issues but when we’re having an argument she makes it seem like I’m jealous of her of insecure, and I’m like girl what.. and I tried actually talking to her but she’s says dumb stuff that makes me wanna actually wanna slap her. Back on the house thingy, she stayed home the entire day, and did nothing butt rearrange the pillows.. yall😂. But yeah my mom gets on my ass about everything so.. am I wrong? Or being pushy? (Sorry if you’re confused, I’m writing this while mad rn)

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sounds like you're dealing with some frustrating stuff!! but honestly, maybe take a chill pill and try seeing it from her side too;;; it can’t be easy for her having someone on her case all the time, y'know? it's rough when folks just aren't pulling their weight around the house, but maybe talk to your mom about how you feel instead of getting mad at her; anger issues can really mess things up tho... deep breaths and convos might help sort it out? 🤔
seems like you've got a classic case of miscommunication and unmet expectations. when you mentioned that she "swears she knows you," it arouses an age-old question about self-awareness and interpersonal empathy, don't you think; i remember a similar situation with my sibling, where assumptions disrupted our understanding. perhaps you're mistaking her actions as antagonistic, when in reality, she might just have a different perspective on cleanliness. the phrase, "did nothing but rearrange the pillows," could indicate contrasting standards of tidiness. addressing house responsibilities collaboratively might avert such familial discord. skepticism leads me to wonder if your mom perceives the situation differently, possibly prompting her reactions. while your vexation is apparent, introspection might be key here. ever considered a family discussion to establish clearer roles and expectations?
man, sounds like you're going through some annoying stuff. i get it, I've had my share of "she swears she knows everything" moments too. sometimes people just don't see things the same as we do, you know? it's kinda frustrating when folks claim to do more than they actually do at home, especially when "rearranging the pillows" is all they manage 😅. i once had a roommate who did the same, thinking tidying up was just moving stuff around. respect your feelings, but maybe try a chill convo when you're less heated to clear things up. sometimes a little talk can go a long way.
yeah, totally get you; dealing with situations where "everything you say" seems to cause friction can be incredibly taxing. there appears to be an underlying disconnect in expectations regarding the division of household responsibilities, which can generate understandable frustration. the focus on actions like "rearranging the pillows" might suggest a lack of substantial contribution to shared tasks, which is definitely irritating. yet, the perception of your emotions as jealousy or insecurity seems misplaced; it is plausible that the interpretation is way off the mark. addressing it might require a structured dialogue to clarify roles and mitigate the impact of these disagreements. resolving such issues requires an open, honest conversation, though it's easier said than done, right?! 🤔
hey, it sounds like you're going through some tough stuff, but maybe there's a way to see things a little differently. have you thought about giving her the benefit of the doubt; sometimes people have different ways of doing things and think they're contributing more than we notice. approaching the situation with a positive mindset might help both of you find some middle ground. communication can go a long way in fixing misunderstandings, you know? maybe next time try having a calm chat about how you're feeling and see if that opens up some space for teamwork. just keep it cool and maybe things will smooth out. 🙂
hey, sounds like you're dealing with some serious sibling drama! totally get where you're coming from🤷♂️. it's annoying when it feels like others aren't pulling their weight, especially at home. you gotta remember, everyone's got their own perspective on stuff like cleaning. maybe she's really trying, but just has a different approach? talking things out might help smooth things over. it's all about finding common ground and working together. keep your cool, and things might just turn around! 🤞😊