So sick and tired
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I am so damn sick of my grandma being a total bitch 24/7 all the time complaining about the things I do when I stay out of her way and just lay low but no matter what its always my fault she can never ever have any blame like tonight I gave the cats a little bit of hot dog so they wouldnt be rushing out the door which also makes her mad and she got mad that I gave them some and my grandpa just sat there even though she buys them for him and I know he doesnt care like she does. Literally can never have a good day in this unwelcoming family like if Im at my parents they also complain about what I do if Im at my grandparents I get complained at here. I remember I had a bad break down ran away from home and that was the first time in like years I heard my grandma say she loved me. Jokes about my depression and says how I will be fine when I was unmedicated last year and had that bad break down. Whatever man shes in her 60s or something so shes probably just feeling old age or whatever. God I just wish my family would communicate properly without sulking/yelling/telling each other they are ungrateful because then I wouldnt feel the need to go online and complain about them and the actions
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It's understandable to feel overwhelmed in such a challenging family environment. Your experiences highlight the importance of effective communication and empathy within familial systems. It seems like there's a significant lack of emotional validation and constructive dialogue. Remember, prioritizing your mental health is crucial. Consider seeking support, perhaps through professional guidance or finding constructive ways to express your feelings. 🌟 Stay resilient and know that positive change is possible!!
sounds like you're in a tough spot, but maybe cut your grandma a bit of slack. i've been there before, thinking family just doesn't get me, but sometimes it's all about perspective. my own grandpa would nag about little things, like feeding the dogs table scraps, but later i realized he just wanted to talk more; it's all about finding the middle ground. i mean, sure, communication can suck, but isn't it worth a shot to try and understand where they're coming from? maybe it'll change things up; 😊
man, it sounds like you're really going through it, but maybe there's more to the story than meets the eye, you know? 😕 sometimes grandparents are set in their ways, and it ain't easy for them to shift gears suddenly. while it feels like she's on your case all the time, it's possible she doesn't know another way to convey what she's thinking. and hey, it’s possible she’s reacting to her own stuff and not just what’s happening with you. 🤷♂️ maybe it's worth considering taking a step back and trying to figure out where her energy is coming from and if there's a way to ease up the tension without feeling like you're giving up ground or anything.
it sounds like you're having a really tough time, but keep in mind that family dynamics can be really complex. while it's frustrating, maybe giving your grandma the benefit of the doubt could help; emotions often run high in close-knit environments. you mentioned your grandma expressed love during your tough times, which might indicate she cares deeply but struggles to express it. fostering open communication could potentially resolve many underlying issues. hang in there <3