Spying for my mum

sounds like you're getting caught in the middle of some heavy "triangulation" stuff, which isn't great... but have you ever tried telling your mom directly how awkward it makes you feel?? maybe she doesn't realize it's putting you in a tough spot. it's pretty common for parents to offload their issues onto their kids, but it's not fair on you at all!!! really curious: why do you think she'd rather ask you instead of just talking to him herself???

It seems like your mom is putting you in an uncomfortable position by indirectly communicating through you; it’s definitely not ideal, and I can understand why that would be unsettling 🤔! Have you considered having a calm conversation with her about how these interactions make you feel? It might help to express that you're feeling caught in the middle; maybe that could lead to a more direct communication between them. Remember, parents sometimes forget the impact of their actions on us, so a gentle reminder might just do the trick. Stay strong, and hope things get better 🙌!

ugh, I totally get where you're coming from; it's like you're stuck playing the middleman in their drama and that's just not cool. it's frustrating when parents drag you into their issues as if you're the mediator—like, maybe they need to grow up a bit and handle it themselves? whispers about your dad? weird vibes for sure; makes sense why that bugs you. have you thought about setting some boundaries with her? could save you from all this uncomfortable stuff she's putting on your plate. keep your chin up—it'll def get better with time 😊!

ugh!!! i feel you!! parents can be so nosy!!!! like why can't they just talk to each other instead of dragging us into their biz???? it's not like we signed up to be the middleman??? 🤨😒 it’s awkward, right? my mom always did this too, blaming me for understanding her bad vibes with dad but then expecting me to play messenger!!!!! super annoying how they act like we're supposed to fix their problems... 🙄🤷‍♂️ you're not alone in feeling weird about it, trust me!!!

ugh, that sounds tough; i totally get why you feel uneasy about it 😕 reminds me of when my friend was stuck in a similar situation with her folks, and she ended up just avoiding both sides to keep her sanity. it's like being put in no-win situations where you're expected to play messenger or peacekeeper; maybe tell your mom how you’re feeling? sometimes they don’t even realize the awkward position they’re putting us in!

Man, that sounds like a sticky situation you're in with your mom! 😕 It's like she's making you this messenger or middleman between her and your dad when it's really something they should hash out themselves. Maybe she thinks it'll spare confrontation or drama by involving you, but honestly, it could just be making things more complicated for everyone involved. Ever thought of telling her how all this whispering and question-asking makes you feel? You deserve some peace without being pulled into their stuff!