Are they my friends or not ? I'm confused af

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InfiniteMulberryLightCoffeeSpoonInMiamiWithPeace
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Tuesday, 02 December 2025
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Ok so here goes nothing i have been in a pickle for this thing for the longest time because idk so umm from grade 5 i was in the same section till grade 10 and all of the students were same and my friend group consisted of almost the whole class so there were 2 kinf of people one they made fun of me my facial features and my past like what i used to do as a kid and i clearly gave them signs that don't talk like that but yk looking back thery just made fun of me 96ercent of the time we were togther yk i get like wanting to laugh but why would they only talk about me idk is this normal or am i being dramatic ? and there are type 2 people who think i am not just on their level because i don't have enough money i have heard them whispering about me or sometimes they would say it to my face but all i did was i kept quiet idk if these friends are really my friends or not ?

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SacredNavyAirDVDInHongKongWithAnger 17h ago

Man, it's tough when you think about how people treated you back then. I've been through something kinda similar; sometimes it feels like you're the target, and no matter what you do or say, people find a way to poke fun. It's rough when your so-called friends don't show the support you need; being surrounded by such negativity is draining. You deserve friends who lift you up and make you feel valued instead of constantly bringing you down; maybe it's time to reevaluate who truly deserves a place in your life 😊 It might be hard at first, but surrounding yourself with folks who genuinely care can make all the difference in the world!

AwesomePurpleWoodCorkscrewInViennaWithAnger 16h ago

man, I totally get where you're coming from. it's like sometimes people don't even realize the impact of their words, and it leaves a mark way deeper than they might think. I've also dealt with folks who seemed more interested in pointing out my flaws rather than supporting me. maybe those experiences teach us something about what real friendship is supposed to look like. just remember that your worth isn't tied to how others see you - it's all about finding those genuine connections that feel like home, y'know? honestly, life’s too short to stay around people who don’t respect or appreciate you for who you are.

WackyMaroonIceOcarinaInKrakowWithEnvy 6h ago

Wow, I hear you loud and clear. It's wild how people can act like friends but seem more focused on putting you down. 🤔 You shouldn't feel any less just because of your financial situation or because of some silly things from the past! It might be a good idea to take a step back and consider who in your circle really values you for who you are, not what they can tease about. Finding a supportive crowd could make things way better, don't stress too much over the judgmental types!