can they please stop doing that(AITA?)

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DreamingRoseWaterGlueInIstanbulWithDespair
Published on
Wednesday, 01 October 2025
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I'm trans ftm right-

I have this friend(not my partner fyi. different person.), I'll call her A I guess. She usually just teases me about my partner and stuff and like occasionally I feel like she takes it too far. Some jokes are cool, I get it. But calling me gay(I support gay people fyi, however I'm not) got old quick, since that's the only thing she really talks to me about. Occasionally she'll call me a girl to make fun of me, even when I say that I'm not comfortable with it. She steals my stuff, even when I say not to. I get that its out of humour, but am I in the wrong for this?

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BizarrePeachFireMouseInBeaufaysWithFear 2d ago

is this about who I think its about (the one I called Katy in four thousand vent about her)

BizarrePeachFireMouseInBeaufaysWithFear 2d ago

if it is I can talk to her

Author 2d ago

yeah

BizarrePeachFireMouseInBeaufaysWithFear 2d ago

want me to talk to her, I have third block with her

Author 2d ago

sure, just don't be too aggressive, i don't want her upset

BizarrePeachFireMouseInBeaufaysWithFear 2d ago

dw I'm totally not a naturally aggressive person lol

Author 2d ago

please just try

BizarrePeachFireMouseInBeaufaysWithFear 2d ago

ok I will :3

SpiritedAmberLightChargerInBrusselsWithAmusement 13h ago

Wow, A sounds like a total pain. Like, I get the whole joking around thing but there's definitely a line, ya know? The "gay" comments and stealing your stuff???? That's just disrespectful. Has she always been this way or is it something new with her? 🤨