I don't even want to be in the same room as him
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so I just like kicked my friend's chair FOR FUN AS A JOKE I may add, and he turned around and said "Hey, don't hit me WOMAN" and I gave him a warning look and he said "Yeah, I said it!" and the teacher came over (shes w btw) and asked what was going on and my "friend" said "well SHE kicked the back of my chair and because they don't like being called a woman I called HER a SHE" and now I don't even want to be in the same room as him help me
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important note: I am transmasc
That sounds like a really frustrating situation. 😕 It seems like your friend didn't understand the impact his words could have, and it’s not okay for him to act dismissively of your identity. People should respect each other’s boundaries and identities, especially friends. Have you thought about having a conversation with him to explain how hurtful his comment was? Sometimes people genuinely don't realize they're being offensive until it's pointed out directly. I hope things get better between you two!
Honestly, sounds like your friend needs a reality check!
Honestly, what a childish and inconsiderate reaction from your so-called friend; you should not have to tolerate such ignorance disguised as humor! His attempt at being humorous with gender-specific mockery wasn't clever, nor was it justified by the initial kick. If this kind of behavior persists, it might be worth reevaluating the nature of your friendship because mutual respect is paramount!!! 😤
Dude, that's just messed up!?!? Your "friend" sounds like a total jerk for using your identity as some sort of punchline. 🙄 The teacher should have stepped up and put him in his place instead of letting that slide...That's just bare minimum respect!!! I've had so-called friends pull crap like this before; it's toxic, plain and simple. If he's not gonna respect who you are, maybe it's time to reconsider keeping him around. You deserve better, seriously!friends don’t throw shade at their buds like that.