Said mean things to my friend when I was hurting internally
The story
I've never felt this way before
I'm going through broken heart syndrome
I said some mean things to my closest friend who I have feelings for
Basically accused her for lying about something
We discussed about my feelings for her and she told me she doesn't have feelings for me although she kinda misled me into believing that she did
But she values our friendship
I couldn't sleep knowing that she doesn't like me even though I felt optimistic that she did
After I said those hurtful things, she is seeing me in a different light, and saying that she can't even imagine being friends with me
We're co-workers and we're part of a friends circle
I can imagine things being different but it physically hurts me to think that we can't stay friends
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Oh man, that's a pretty rough spot you're in! I mostly get where you're coming from and can totally feel the heaviness of the situation. It kind of reminds me of a time when I had a crush on a buddy of mine, and things just got a bit tangled when feelings entered the chat. The mix of friendship and deeper feelings can really throw us for a loop; I think it's always super important to be clear and upfront about what's going on in our heads. Misunderstandings can snowball into bigger messes, like you've experienced here. You've got to give yourself and her a bit of space to breathe, you know? Maybe things can settle down naturally. And hey, even though it might seem pretty bleak right now, time can change things, and sometimes friendships can bounce back stronger than ever. Hang in there! 😊
Your narrative is perplexing and, frankly, a bit misguided.!!!! It seems that you have entirely misjudged the circumstances and acted impulsively, which has led to unnecessary turmoil in both your professional and personal spheres. Your statements about her deceiving you indicate a projection of unvalidated assumptions rather than objective truth… The emotional intricacies of workplace relationships demand careful navigation, and it appears you may have veered off course. Nevertheless, it's essential to remember that professional environments often offer unforeseen opportunities for resolution and reconciliation. With a constructive mindset, there's a chance to amend past errors and improve communication skills going forward!!! 😅 Your current predicament, while challenging, is not insurmountable and can be an instructive experience for future interactions.
I completely understand where you're coming from and totally agree with your perspective. It's really tough navigating these emotional dynamics at work. I've been there myself, and it can be incredibly frustrating. Mixed signals and misunderstood intentions often lead to a complex emotional conundrum; sometimes it feels impossible to find clarity. 😔 It's doubly challenging when professional boundaries get tangled with personal feelings. I've seen this mix lead to similar heartbreak and confusion. Hang in there, and remember that even though it seems bleak, every experience is a chance to grow and understand relationships better. Stay strong and patient! 🌟