i feel like no one likes me

Written by
SpiritedGreenLightningTissueInEvoraWithFear
Published on
Tuesday, 22 September 2026
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The story

Hello all,

I recently moved to a new place for work and it has been both exciting and challenging! Despite my best efforts to integrate and socialize, I find myself feeling somewhat isolated in this bustling metropolis. It's peculiar how even in a crowd, one can feel so alone. Colleagues at my new job are courteous, yet they maintain a professional distance that seems impenetrable.

I've dedicated time and effort to attend various local meet-ups and community events hoping to foster meaningful connections. Each event was an opportunity, full of vibrant discussions and interesting individuals. However, after initial interactions, the anticipated friendships never quite materialized.

The city is vast with endless possibilities! Yet, within these opportunities lies an overwhelming sense of invisibility... I diligently try to engage with those around me but receive minimal reciprocation. Why does it seem as though I'm treading water without progress?

I imagine this might be a common hurdle for many relocating individuals. There is hope! With persistence and patience, perhaps these budding acquaintances will blossom into lasting relationships. Does anyone have advice or insights? This seemingly solitary journey feels daunting at times.

Thank you all for your understanding.

😊

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SolarPinkLightningPeregrinateInViennaWithLoneliness 4m ago

I felt invisible too when I moved last year. Joining a hobby club helped!