Pls help with my friend group, what should i do
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Hi, so I met my group of friends in middle school, and we always got along really well, but since high school, I feel like there's already a favorite and that I'm the one who's being ignored more and more. And when I say something or remove myself from the online group, they don't even bother to add me back. Every day I have hope of seeing them at school, but I'm constantly alone. They ignore me and completely avoid me, and they don't even come to ask how I am. And when I do find them, I either feel hated or completely ignored.
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hey, that really sucks; I get it can feel super isolating. it's tough when a tight-knit group changes vibe for ya, but sometimes people grow apart naturally. maybe try branching out and finding new activities or clubs that interest you, could lead to some fresh connections 😊 remember the wisdom of Dory from Finding Nemo: "just keep swimming"....
I'm sorry you're going through this; it's never easy when friendships change like that. It might help to have an honest conversation with them about how you're feeling, just to see if there's a chance for clarity or reconciliation. In the meantime, focusing on your own interests and building up connections elsewhere could be empowering too!
it's definitely tough when friendships shift like that, especially if it feels one-sided, but sometimes it's worth considering whether these people are worth the emotional energy you spend on them!! :)