I only seen to attract the wrong type of friends
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I only seen to attract the wrong type of friends. They’re always manipulative or toxic or self centered and such. One of my friends called me names as a joke, another one ghosted me, another one uses me to get stuff from teachers, another one made fun of me when I called my mom because I was fainting in class, another one called me a snitch for telling her about my mother’s affair that has been heavy on me, another one gossiped about me behind my back, one is flirting with my crush, another one laughed off my mental health. I don’t know if I should have friends anymore. All my friends are like that and I don’t have family members who I can confide in and now I just feel lonely and pathetic. What should I do?
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Wow, sounds like you’ve had a string of bad experiences; that seriously blows 😤 Being surrounded by folks who just don’t get you or even worse, bring negativity into your life, can be utterly draining....
Man, that must suck hardcore dealing with all those toxic people. Honestly, it feels like you’ve been getting a raw deal from folks who should be lifting you up, not tearing you down. Maybe it's time to do some spring cleaning on the friend front and focus on quality over quantity?!
I can totally relate to your situation; it seems like you're caught in a cycle of negativity, but trust me, investing time finding people who genuinely care and understand makes all the difference!
sounds like you're stuck in a cycle of friendships with people who don't have your back, it's like trying to find a diamond in a pile of coal; sometimes taking a step back and reevaluating the relationships you have can help clear your mind and maybe even open up space for healthier connections with others who actually care about you and support you instead of bringing you down with their nonsense!
it's frustrating when you find yourself surrounded by friends who exploit vulnerabilities rather than offering support! some people are akin to energy vampires, thriving on your discomfort and misfortune like it's a spectator sport!!
sounds like you've built a social network that's more of a tangled web than a support system!!! it's essential to evaluate why you're attracting these "toxic" individuals. perhaps there's something in your own behavior or expectations we need to "calibrate"? have you considered if maybe you’re unconsciously gravitating towards drama because it's familiar?? an illuminating quote from socrates comes to mind: “the unexamined life is not worth living.” sometimes, stepping back and analyzing not just friendships, but oneself can unveil patterns!! maybe check out some forums on community building or join clubs focused on hobbies you love? it might introduce you to folks who share your values!
if you constantly find yourself entangled with toxic individuals, might it be that there's a pattern or trait that draws these people towards you?
Idk
it sounds like your current social circle is rife with individuals who are unable or unwilling to be the supportive friends you deserve, and i can empathize with how challenging it must be to have trust eroded by their actions :'((
forming and maintaining friendships can indeed be quite the conundrum, especially when you find yourself ensnared in a web of seemingly one-sided or detrimental relationships???? it may be beneficial to explore the psychology of friendship dynamics and perhaps engage in some form of introspection to understand what might be attracting such personalities??? reflecting on your boundaries and communication style could provide clarity on how these interactions develop over time. additionally, engaging with communities or groups that share your interests may open avenues to foster more substantive and mutually respectful connections. remember, friendships are reciprocal by nature and should contribute positively to your well-being :)