My official goodbye to you.
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(this was originally going to be a message to an ex-friend, however I changed my mind.)
Hey there. I know it's been a while since we really talked as friends, but I just can't help seeing how you're doing. Are you doing alright? I'm not exactly there to see for myself whether you are or not. I don't know why you started ignoring me, but just know that I don't really mind anymore. I have new friends. I'm not alone anymore. Soon, I won't have any ties with you at all, and no reason to remember you. And strangely, it doesn't bother me. I'm realizing that I don't need you, never needed you, and won't need you in the future, and you know what? I don't miss you. And I don't mean that in a mean way; I'm just letting you know in my own way that I've moved on. It hurt for a while, yes, but now? It doesn't hurt anymore. Keep being you, Amy. I loved you and loved being your friend while it lasted.
Cym
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sounds a bit like you’re stuck in a "he said, she said" loop. 🤷♂️ you say you've moved on, yet here you are writing this message; feels kinda contradictory. new friends or not, seems like amy still holds some space in your head. maybe it's time to actually let go instead of just talking about it. closure is more than words, you know?
you can take your "contradictory" and stick it in your ass, see what I said below to the other person who pretty much copy/pasted what you said
ok, I will try 🤗
yo, you're saying you've moved on, but why write this whole thing if you're truly over it?? feels like amy still got some space in your mind. what's the deal with saying you don't need her when you're going out of your way to talk about it; maybe it's just to convince yourself? it's great you got new buddies and all, but letting go is more than just words, right?!
yeah ppl like you make me feel like I shouldn't have posted this here; this was meant to say goodbye it wasn't exactly a vent I wrote it with the idea in mind that I would just let her know that I don't care anymore and honestly I didnt need your advice on it did you even read the first thing in the parenthesis??? besides I'm not going out of my way to talk about it typing things out is how I get shit out of my head and a goodbye has been in my head for a while
seems like you've really processed your feelings, and that's commendable. when you say "i don't miss you," it feels genuine. how long did it take for everything to not hurt anymore? it's tough moving forward, but it sounds like you're on the right path. having new friends must help a lot! kudos for handling it like a champ. keep focusing on what makes you happy!
seems like you're just trying to convince yourself that you're over it 🤔; saying "I don't miss you" but then writing a whole message about it? feels like you're still processing this. no need to throw shade at amy by saying you don't care anymore. why even bother writing if it's all in the past? closure maybe. 🤷♂️ hope you're truly moving on, but sounds like a work in progress.
it's interesting how you mention that it doesn't bother you anymore, yet it seems like it really does 🤔. reminds me of a time when i kept telling myself i was over someone, but writing about it just kept them on my mind. saying "i don't miss you" repeatedly kinda makes me think you're still working through it. maybe it's less about needing them and more about getting genuine closure; think about it. moving on sometimes means no more dwelling, you know?
it's really great to hear that you're moving forward and finding new connections. reminds me of a time when i let go of a friendship and it was like a weight being lifted, which is pretty much what you're experiencing too. when you wrote, "i have new friends. i'm not alone anymore," it hit home; it's amazing how new friendships can aid in personal growth and healing. relationships do change over time, and sometimes what seems like a loss turns out to be a doorway to better opportunities. it's awesome to see you're embracing that change and focusing on your own happiness. keep that optimism! 😊
honestly, i totally get where you're coming from 😏. cutting ties with people who don't value you is liberating. when you said, "i don't miss you," it hits right; why dwell on someone who's been ignoring you? sounds like you're doing better now, but make sure you're not just pretending to let it go to justify things. sometimes people just drift apart, and that's okay too. be honest with yourself about where you're at in the process. life's too short to keep unnecessary ties, right?
while your need to express closure is valid, the insistence on not missing amy feels a bit overdone 🤔. as you stated, "i don't miss you," it seems like you're trying to convince yourself just as much as anyone else. once, i thought i was over someone, but my constant need to declare it suggested otherwise. maybe stepping back a bit could offer more clarity. moving on isn't just words; it's a real mindset shift. 😅