My social life is getting overwhelming

Hey there, I kinda see where you're coming from, but honestly, it sounds like you're blowing things out of proportion a bit. I mean, yeah, friends can be annoying—can't deny that, happens to all of us; but maybe you're expecting a bit too much from them at times??? Like, not every convo has to be exciting or perfectly appropriate—people just chat about whatever comes to mind, y'know?

When it comes to keeping your relationship private, it's tough, but expecting everyone to keep things under wraps is a bit of a stretch. Secrets have a way of slipping out, especially in a school setting. I've been there, and it ain't fun, but sometimes you gotta roll with it and maybe just be more selective with what you share.

As for the sports club situation—yeah, it’s awkward at first, but everybody started as "the new kid" at some point. You just need to give it more time and put yourself out there a bit. Moving houses and changing schools is a huge stress, no doubt. I've been through it, and it's rough, but you eventually find your groove. Just don't let the weight of it all convince you that your social life is totally broken, 'cause it's not!!!

i absolutely get where you're coming from!!!! it's like life just throws all these curveballs at you and expects you to juggle them all at once!!! "when it rains, it pours," right??? the pressure of keeping everything under control is super overwhelming, especially with friends who don't always get it. i totally agree that can be really frustrating when your friends just yap on about stuff that feels so out of touch with how you're feeling. it's like they're on a whole different wavelength or something!!!

having a boyfriend and keeping it on the down-low is tricky as heck, and secrets spreading like wildfire is something we all dread. i think your feelings of betrayal are pretty valid there. in sports clubs, starting fresh where everyone already knows each other??? that's so tough and super intimidating!!! but hey, it’s a chance to meet new folks who might just surprise you with their awesomeness. moving houses and leaving behind what you know is, like, such a massive change, and feeling all sorts of mixed emotions about it is totally understandable. hang in there, because sometimes the toughest challenges lead to the best growth and opportunities!!!!!! 😃

I hear what you're saying, but I can't help but feel that you're focusing on the negatives more than necessary. The way you're describing your friends talking about random topics feels a bit like you're shutting out potential social connections. As the saying goes, "variety is the spice of life," and sometimes those offbeat conversations can lead to stronger bonds.

With your relationship becoming public, it's unfortunate, but we all have to realize that keeping things under wraps in tight-knit circles can be more challenging than it seems. When it comes to the sports club, yeah, it's tough starting over where everyone else is already settled, but this is your chance to redefine yourself and maybe even discover new strengths.

Moving homes is a major transition, no doubt, and leaving friends behind is hard, but it doesn't necessarily mean your social life is falling apart. It's more of an opportunity to find new communities and expand your network. Remember, "nothing ventured, nothing gained." Change is part of life, and while it comes with its hurdles, it also brings about fresh paths and opportunities. 🙂

honestly, it sounds like you're dealing with a lot. friends can definitely be overwhelming sometimes, and it feels like they don't always pick up on what's going on with you. i remember when my friends would just blab on about things, and i'd feel kinda left out or even invisible. the part about keeping your relationship private? that's rough, especially when it leaks out through people you trusted; trust gets tricky, and once it's broken, it's hard to rebuild.

the sports club scene is tough when you're the new one trying to fit in, but hey, give it some time. people usually warm up after a while, and you never know who you're gonna click with. moving homes and leaving your old friends is a lot to handle and feeling disconnected is normal in such a big transition.

but remember, change isn't always a bad thing. sometimes it's just an opportunity in disguise, giving you space to grow in ways you never expected. hang in there, and don't be too hard on yourself!

I understand what you're going through. Something similar is happening with me rn. I had to change cities due studies. I asked just one of my friends will he come with me but he denied. So I came alone. I didn't mention anything about changing cities to them because of the same kind of reason that you gave. It's like I ghosted them, but now I am also lonely . I don't have any friends here. Also the people I sit with are very annoying and this creates negative vibes . I am feeling lonely nowadays. But I still haven't contact my old friends . I feel like it will be so awkward to suddenly reappear after 6 to 7 months and I would have to explain why I was gone. I planned that once I clear my exams ( which is in 2026) it will be easy to explain them. But now I feel anxious. What if I don't clear the exam. Then it will be more difficult for me to contact them. It would make me sound like a failure. Self doubt is worst