r/ am I the asshole for being pissed at my friend
The story
omg I don’t know why i’m on here I’m at band practice rn so I can’t actually talk face to face with someone about this but BASICALLY. a couple weeks back on my birthday my friend got PISS drunk despite me not wanting her to at this other friends house and she ended up throwing up everywhere for like five hours. it sucked. she said she’d make it up to me and hasn’t, and then half an hour ago had a go at me for being pissed at her all the time with no explanation. shes so weird. im so weird. our relationship is so fucking weird. guitarist and drummer tension ig. and she just talks like everything is normal but it’s not but how would she know??? I suck at communication and the conversation or her having a go at me ended like 30 minutes ago i cant just bring it up now and UGH oh my god I feel like an idiot. id go more into depth but I can’t be bothered. sos for terrible grammar im not reading this back
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Points of view
Bro, I totally get it! 🤣 Like, band mates can be a whole mess sometimes, especially when you’re supposed to be vibing out to some sick tunes and then drama hits, right? Been there, done that! A while back, my mate went a bit off the rails at another friend’s gig and it was a circus, but we laughed it off like crazy later and got over it. It’s all about those weird phases, ya know? 😂 Sometimes people just don’t get the memo on boundaries after a sitch like that – you just gotta smack ‘em with the truth, eventually. Communication is a beast we all gotta tame, dude. You two will probably laugh about this someday. Hang in there! 😆 It’s gonna be fine, chill vibes only, you got this!