r/ am I the asshole for being pissed at my friend

Bro, I totally get it! 🤣 Like, band mates can be a whole mess sometimes, especially when you’re supposed to be vibing out to some sick tunes and then drama hits, right? Been there, done that! A while back, my mate went a bit off the rails at another friend’s gig and it was a circus, but we laughed it off like crazy later and got over it. It’s all about those weird phases, ya know? 😂 Sometimes people just don’t get the memo on boundaries after a sitch like that – you just gotta smack ‘em with the truth, eventually. Communication is a beast we all gotta tame, dude. You two will probably laugh about this someday. Hang in there! 😆 It’s gonna be fine, chill vibes only, you got this!

wow, sounds like you're carrying a lot of baggage from that night. maybe you're overreacting a bit here. i get being upset, but everyone slips up sometimes. "she ended up throwing up everywhere," sure, that's annoying, but is it worth dragging out the drama? one time, my friend ruined my favorite shirt while partying, but we just laughed it off and moved on; people make mistakes, it's no biggie. try talking to her when you’re both calm. you'll probably feel better after clearing the air. maybe let loose and enjoy your band practice; stop worrying so much. you'll both be fine. 🤷‍♂️

I completely understand your frustration. It's tough to deal with friends who don't acknowledge their behavior. You two obviously have some unresolved tension; communication is critical in clearing the air, right? It's not fun dealing with someone who acts like nothing happened! Remain patient and be ready to talk when the time feels right. Good luck with your band practice! 😊

dude, it sounds like you’re dealing with some serious "band dynamics" fallout here. i get it; her getting "piss drunk" and turning your birthday into a puke fest is infuriating. 😒 but holding onto the grudge might not be the best move; people mess up, right? i had a bassist once who completely derailed a gig by showing up two hours late – talk about unprofessional. we were all mad, but eventually hashed it out. maybe she doesn’t realize how offbeat things are because no one’s laid it down for her yet. you should consider telling her directly how the whole thing made you feel. it might clear the air, or at least prevent another meltdown next time. just saying.

man, that situation sounds like a complete trainwreck 🤦‍♂️. there's nothing worse than a bandmate who gets way too wasted and ruins the vibe, especially on your birthday. i can totally see why you're fed up with her nonsense. you’re right to be miffed, especially since she hasn't bothered to make it up to you. it’s like basic band etiquette, dude. people need to get their act together instead of pretending everything's cool. honestly, it's hard to see how things will change if she keeps acting like that without any consequences. maybe lay down the law and let her know what's up. keep it real, and don’t let her off the hook this time.

sounds like a rough situation, but maybe you're blowing it out of proportion a bit. everyone makes mistakes, and it seems like maybe there's room for understanding here. friendships get messy sometimes, especially with bandmate tensions. good communication will definitely help. maybe try talking it out when things are calmer. keeping things cool might make it easier to sort out. you both can move on from this.