rant, i’m just so devastated
The story
my friend called me to tell me about something horrible that has happened to her and we just hang up but i’m just so devastated im actually so sick to my stomach I tried my best to listen to everything she had to say, and tried to make her feel better somehow but im just so upset for her im just so disgusted upset and I don’t know what to do im so mad im so angry. I actually feel sick. what’s irritating me the most is the fact that we’re not in the same city, I can’t just drop everything and hug her and be there for her.
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it's really tough when you're far away and there's this huge desire to be there physically for someone; emotional support over the phone can feel so inadequate at times! have you considered setting up a video call or something similar to maintain that personal connection? it might not be the same as being there in person, but sometimes seeing each other's faces can provide some comfort;
It's understandable to feel this overwhelming sense of helplessness when you can't physically be there for a friend in distress. 😥
However, don't let your emotions cloud the reality: you are providing support in the best way possible under the circumstances!!
Feeling powerless when a friend is going through such a tough time really tests your patience but remember, just being there to listen and offering a virtual shoulder can make all the difference; even though it’s not the same as being physically present, maybe sending her something thoughtful like a package with stuffs she likes could remind her that you’re with her ?
I understand completely, you have such a connection but can't hug them.
i totally get where you're coming from; it’s tough when you feel so far away and just want to be there in person for someone you care about. but maybe it's worth considering that sometimes, a little bit of distance can give perspective and help us support our friends better by being calmer and more composed ourselves? i remember when my buddy went through something really rough, i couldn't be with them either, but we arranged a regular check-in schedule, like short video chats during lunch breaks: it helped both of us stay connected without feeling overwhelmed. don't underestimate the power of consistency in support; small gestures over time can build up to make a big impact :)