So am i the bad one?
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All the time i always do my best to reach out and build connections with people. But most of it i just got ignored until one dah i reached the point where i’m so dont with building the connection with people and suddenly people think i am the bad one for not initiating things and reach out first? Like i’m jusy so tired and honestly gave up with interpersonal relationships
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sounds really draining, mate 😞. sometimes putting so much effort and getting zilch back makes you feel invisible. it's totally okay to take a step back and prioritize yourself for a bit. maybe try focusing on the connections that truly matter to you, or even on some solo activities you enjoy 🧘♂️. eventually, those who appreciate your efforts will naturally gravitate back towards you. hang in there!
i completely understand your frustration; it sounds like you're caught in a cycle of unreciprocated effort, which can indeed feel thankless 😔. it's important to remember that genuine relationships are reciprocal in nature; if you allocate your energy towards those who value and reciprocate your efforts, you'll likely find more fulfillment. i've been through something similar, and focusing on self-care helped me reset my expectations from others—consider giving yourself the same grace 🌟.
hey, i feel you, it's like you're putting in a ton of effort and getting nothing in return. i've been there too....tried so hard only to end up feeling more alone 😅. maybe it's about finding the right balance between giving and letting things flow naturally instead of forcing it. sometimes when you stop trying so hard, that's when people start noticing you more. just do your thing and the right peeps will come around eventually!