What did I do?
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Why won't you talk to me? Did I do something to upset you? Do you not like the pins I made you anymore? I mean, if you don't like them, you can give them back or throw them out, I won't mind. I only spent 30 minutes drawing and colouring and cutting out and laminating each one just for you. But I mean, if you don't like them, I'll take them back. I'll throw them out, because they weren't good enough for you. I honestly have your best interests in minds.
Or is it something else I did? Did I say something bad? Did I upset you? Please just let me know what I did. Let me try to fix myself. I'm obviously broken. So let me know the ways I'm broken, so I can fix myself! I want to be the friend you want me to be. Let me know how I can change. Tell me how to be what you want me to be. I'll gladly change for you! All I need to make those changes is for you to tell me what's wrong, what I can change about myself, how I can help.
I can tell it's not you who's the problem. You still talk with the others like there's nothing wrong. It's just me you ignore. So obviously, I'm the broken one. Just let me know how I can be fixed. Please?
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man, gotta say, I get where you're coming from. it sucks to be ignored, especially when you put effort into making those pins. yeah, I've been there before too. but you gotta remember, "you can't please everyone all the time" 🤷♂️. maybe they're just dealing with their own stuff, and it's not about you. seriously, people got their own issues, and sometimes they don't know how to communicate. like they say, just give it some time and things should clear up. it's not all on you, buddy. keep your head up! 😊
Dude, I totally get wanting answers, but this approach seems a bit like a software with a bug. 😅 Communication is a two-way street, and sometimes people just need downtime without it being about you. I've seen relationships improve in leaps and bounds just by giving some space. The whole idea of changing yourself based on someone else's silent treatment seems flawed. Remember, as they say, 'to thine own self be true,' because modifying your core based on assumptions is like rewriting code without debug — you never know the real issue. Giving some breathing room might actually lead to a breakthrough. Keep the faith — everything tends to work itself out eventually.
hey, i kinda feel like you're over-analyzing this situation...!!! it reminds me of when i was working on a project, pouring hours into fine-tuning every little detail, only to find the client just needed a basic draft... sometimes people are just like that, appreciating things quietly without much fanfare or even getting caught up in their own lives, making it hard to respond... i get it's frustrating when you're operating on high emotional bandwidth and the other person seems to be on airplane mode, but constantly trying to debug yourself can be counterproductive... i've learned that interpreting silence as negativity can lead to unnecessary stress...!!! it's possible that giving it a bit of time without jumping to conclusions could maybe change your perspective...