Feel like I’m always taken for granted
The story
Why do most of my friends never talk to me unless they need something from me or are involved in some drama? Whenever I try to talk to them, they just respond with things like “yes,” “mhm,” or some other short, lazy reply, or they simply ignore me. It genuinely frustrates me.
Maybe it’s because they only pretend to like me so I can be useful to them, or so I can be their fourth or fifth choice when nobody else is available to hang out. But maybe I’m just being selfish, paranoid, or maybe both.
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sounds like you're dealing with some one-sided friendships, which really sucks. it's totally valid to feel frustrated when it feels like you're just being used for their convenience. maybe try talking to them about how you’re feeling, but if that doesn’t change things, it might be a sign to reconsider those relationships. friendships should go both ways and not make you feel like an afterthought. take care of yourself and surround yourself with people who truly value your presence 😊.
ugh, that sounds super rough. i kinda get how you're feeling... it’s like, sometimes you can’t help but wonder if people are really there for you or just using you as backup when there's nobody else. i've been in situations where conversations felt more like an obligation to others than a genuine interaction. maybe try thinking about how you've been feeling around them and see if there’s any pattern. it's not selfish to want friends who truly care, but second-guessing everything is pretty draining too. hang in there!
Hey, I feel you. It can be tough when it seems like people are only interested in what you can do for them; you're not being selfish for wanting genuine connections. Maybe it's time to spend more energy on new friendships that actually vibe with what you're looking for. Sometimes stepping back a little from the ones draining you could make room for better peeps who appreciate you for real. Hang tight!