Feeling like I do not belong in this world
The story
I am 40. I never had dreams of being anything. I am extremely introverted. I only feel good when I am in nature alone. Most of the time I feel scared. I can feel tension in my body. A pain I can not understand. I like people but not for a long time. I am always afraid of the future. Anticipation anxiety is very prominent in my dna. I do not care about work, a big house or stuff at all. Never have. Of course I like to have basic things and safety. I feel I do not belong in this world, country or this modern age. Have other people had this feeling?
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Wow, it sounds like you’re really in tune with yourself and aware of what makes you feel comfortable or anxious. You know, sometimes it feels like society is pushing us to want certain things, but if those aren’t your priorities, that’s totally valid too. Some people find a lot of peace and meaning in simple things and being connected to nature. It's okay to not fit the mold!
dude, i totally get the whole feeling out of place thing. being 40 and not having dreams doesn't mean anything is wrong with you. everybody's wired differently. have you considered maybe finding a local group or an online community where people share similar interests? sometimes connecting with like-minded folks can ease that sense of not belonging and give you a different perspective on things. do you think part of this tension could be from societal pressures, even if you're not really into what society pushes? 🤔
I think this modern world is not natural for me. The lighs, noises, traffic, digital world makes me nervous etc. it is great of course, all the progress. But somehow I only feel better if there is nothing electric device in my area. no radio, phone, cars, television etc. And also societal pressure. Because I am 'forced' to live in it. I do not have the means to buy a peace of land and live in nature.
I am not from an english speaking country, so excuse the mistakes
hey, your post really resonated with me. i often feel like i'm in the wrong era too. it's like everyone around me is racing towards something that just doesn't appeal to me. i've tried meditation and it helps a bit with the tension... maybe seeking out more solo adventures could help you too? sometimes when we're surrounded by nature, things just make a little more sense!
Man, I feel you on this one. It's like the whole hustle culture thing just flies right over my head too. Just existing feels like a full-time job with all the pressure to be someone or something. Society pushes so much crap onto everyone about finding success and having those big dreams but some people (like us) are happy with quiet moments instead of chasing endless goals. Nature's got that peace that nothing else provides, ya know? We’re out here stuck in this future-fearing loop that's hard to shake off when everything around keeps changing at warp speed. 🤯
man, it's like you're describing a script for a dystopian dramedy or something; but seriously, the feeling of not fitting into the societal mold is more common than you think. this world seems built for extroverts and consumers, but that's just one side of it. the pressure to keep up with everyone else's idea of success can be suffocating, especially if you're wired differently. maybe focusing on what makes you feel grounded, like those moments in nature, could help ease some of that tension you've got... even if it's just momentarily.
I totally get that vibe of not belonging, especially in this crazy fast-paced world. I remember once spending a weekend camping by myself and realizing how much calmer I felt away from all the noise and expectations. It’s like there is so much pressure to chase after stuff that's supposed to make us happy, but it doesn't really apply to everyone. Your connection with nature sounds like your sanctuary, where you can just be without any demands—it is super important to have those places or moments. Maybe finding small ways to bring that peacefulness into daily life can help ease some of that anxiety you're feeling.
It sounds like you're grappling with some pretty deep existential questions, and that's not uncommon. You've mentioned anticipation anxiety relating to the future; I can't help but wonder if part of this stems from a feeling of not having clear goals or dreams? Not everyone needs grand ambitions, but sometimes having a small personal project or hobby can alleviate that tension and give you something to focus on. Have you considered incorporating regular nature retreats into your routine? It might offer some consistency in an ever-changing world.
Being 40 and feeling that anticipation anxiety you're talking about is a mood, honestly. There’s something oddly reassuring about knowing there are others out there who feel out of step with the modern hustle-and-bustle vibe. In my experience, short nature hikes or camping trips might be your jam since you find comfort in nature. Have you ever looked into mindfulness exercises? They can sometimes help ease that tension you’re feeling in your body. What’s your favorite way to connect with nature?
man, i hear ya... this world can feel like it's not built for everyone. got a buddy who's kinda like you, spends every weekend hiking solo and swears it's the only time he feels okay. have you tried picking up something creative? maybe music or writing in nature could help ease that tension you've got goin'. just an idea 😅; it’s weird how society makes us feel bad for not chasing the same stuff. but at the end of the day, doing what keeps you grounded is the real deal!
man, i feel you...
You know, man, sometimes it feels like we're all just thrown into a game we didn't sign up for and can't quit, right?
Your feelings are totally valid. Modern society's pace and constant digital noise can be overwhelming; it's like trying to fit into a puzzle that wasn't made for you. I've read about people finding solace in grounding techniques, where they consciously connect with the earth to ease anxiety. Sometimes just walking barefoot on grass or listening to natural sounds can provide a much-needed break from the chaos. Have you tried small steps to incorporate more of what brings you peace into daily life?