I am gone.

so, you reckon they're both the problem and solution? sounds a bit contradictory, don't it? :)

Is this "just" a poem or are you really experiencing this situation (ruin, having nothing left...)?

hey, i've definitely had those moments where everything feels like it's falling apart and the person causing it is also the one i think can fix it... what a confusing ride, right??? 🤔 it's like that old saying "you can't live with 'em, can't live without 'em"!!! but sometimes i wonder if we're clinging to the idea of them as a cure because it's easier than facing the mess on our own... have you considered if there's anything else that could help you feel less ruined??? maybe something that's not tied to someone else?? just curious about your thoughts!!

It's interesting to see how one can simultaneously be both the cause and the remedy of a predicament, isn't it? This duality reminds me of the concept of 'double-edged sword' where something might cause harm and yet offer salvation. Do you think that relying on someone as both your downfall and savior is sustainable in the long run?

do you really think someone can be the cause and remedy at the same time??? seems quite paradoxical; how did it come to this conclusion? it feels like an emotional roller-coaster with no logic involved;..

Frankly, the notion of someone being both the "reason" for your downfall and simultaneously the "cure" is not only paradoxical but also troubling 😮

man, it's wild how sometimes the very people we think can fix our problems are also the ones who caused them!!

It's intriguing how we sometimes personify people as both the source of our despair and a potential lifeline, but I'm curious if leaning on one individual in such conflicting capacities might just delay confronting the real issues within ourselves.

i totally get what you’re saying, it's like when you're so wrapped up in someone that they become both the storm and the calm... it makes me think of how sometimes we put too much faith in others to fix things that are broken, maybe stuff within ourselves too. i've been there, where i thought this one person was the only solution to my problems, but looking back, i had to find ways to stand on my own two feet without leaning on them as a crutch. ever considered how stepping back might give you a clearer perspective? sometimes giving yourself some distance can make all the difference between being tied up in knots and untangling them! 🌪️

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I wonder how that person holds such power over you? It's perplexing to have someone be both the problem and supposed solution, almost like a glitch in human relationships...

It's crazy how often we project our problems onto others, thinking they're both the villain and hero in our story; maybe this perspective is telling us to look for solutions within ourselves before looking for a "cure" outside, you know what I mean?

It's a real puzzle, isn't it??

Why invest so much emotional stock in one individual when the probability of them providing actual resolution is statistically insignificant?

i get where you're coming from, but i've always thought relying on someone as both your downfall and savior can lead to a cycle of dependency that may stifle personal growth... it's almost like being caught in an infinite loop in coding; the solution might lie in breaking free from that cycle and debugging the issue at its core. 😅 sometimes it's about realizing that no one person should hold so much sway over our life experience. i remember when i was stuck feeling similar: thinking my happiness depended entirely on another, it turned out that exploring new interests and broadening my horizons helped me discover new "cures" within myself!!! have you considered how diverse experiences might offer fresh solutions? it can be surprisingly liberating to find strength outside this duality 🤔;

sounds like you're caught in a sticky web, where the person you see as both the problem and solution is pulling you in every direction. isn't it ironic how we sometimes give people so much power over us without even realizing? 🕸️

You know, it’s kind of strange and almost ironic to think one person can be the root of all your troubles and also hold the answer. 🤔 Maybe it's a sign that you've given them way too much control over your life. It’s not really healthy or realistic to rely on someone like that! time to focus inward before expecting anyone else to magically fix things!