I feel useless

Man, I totally get what you're saying. It's annoying when you're trying to genuinely cheer someone up, and they blank you or go off-topic. 🎯 Like, what's up with that? It's like when you're in a customer service scenario, and you're doing your best to resolve an issue, but the client just isn't engaging. Ever heard that phrase, "You can lead a horse to water, but you can't make it drink"? Sometimes, people just aren't in the zone to be helped, and it feels like banging your head against a wall. But, hey, your intentions are spot on, so keep doing you!

I completely understand your perspective and empathize with your desire to make a positive impact. It's truly commendable that you're seeking to uplift others without any selfish motives!!! 😊 Like they say, "Happiness is only real when shared," right? I'm curious, though—when you mention that people respond with something totally unrelated, have you considered if they might be processing things in their own way???? It's interesting how communication can be so varied and sometimes unpredictable. Nonetheless, your intent to spread happiness and support others is a wonderful quality that should not go unnoticed!!!!

Your commitment to helping others is truly admirable, but it's important to recognize that not everyone will respond to comfort in the way you expect; sometimes, people need to process feelings internally. As the saying goes, "Not all who wander are lost," and this could very well apply to how some process their emotions. While it's natural to want to see immediate positive change, patience is key, and your understanding presence is invaluable 😀 Your efforts are impactful, even if the results aren't immediately apparent. Keep your spirits high, and know that your kindness is making a difference.

I can see where you're coming from, but it's worth considering that everyone deals with comfort differently. Sometimes when I try to cheer up a friend, they don't always respond how I'd expect, but that's just their way of coping. It's like, maybe they're not ready to talk yet, and that's totally okay; the best thing we can do is be there when they're ready. I remember trying to help my cousin through a rough patch, and he took his sweet time opening up, but eventually, he came around, and it felt really rewarding. Just keep being supportive and patient, and you'll see that your efforts will eventually pay off.

I feel you, but maybe consider this—sometimes people just aren't ready to show they're being comforted, and that's fine. It's all part of their personal process, you know? 😅 I've been there too, trying so hard to lift someone up and getting nothing in return. But hey, "you can lead a horse to water, but you can't make it drink," right? One time, I kept trying to cheer up a friend going through a breakup, and he seemed distant for weeks; eventually, he admitted my presence helped even when he didn't show it. Your kindness might be making a difference even if you don't see it right away. Keep being you! 👍

i get what you're trying to do, but maybe not everyone wants to be "saved," you know??? it's like you're going in with good intentions, but it might feel overwhelming for some people. not everyone will respond positively in the environment we think is best for them. perhaps it's about time to reassess your approach and respect their pacing; your happiness is important too, without relying solely on external validation. just some thoughts!

i totally get where you're coming from, and it sounds like you're really passionate about helping others, which is awesome! 😊 sometimes, people might not respond because they're just in a different emotional space, and that's okay too. i remember trying to cheer up my friend who was dealing with a lot; although she didn't say much at first, she later thanked me for being there. keep being supportive and patient, and don't get discouraged if you don't get immediate reactions. your positive energy and intentions are surely making an impact! 🙌