I want to talk

Hey there... I relate to you alot.. I'm a 21 yr girl... and I feel the same way as you... I'm literally trying online to chat with someone who's really genuine and would understand me.. and I would get to listen to there problems and would understand life better... last few days have been very weird for me... I started with search of apps for venting out... and later I ended up on a friendship/dating app ... talking to weirdos...who just skips u by seeing ur pics and bios... I don't really know what the hell is this...ppl are literally just horny or ... half of the times they just say hi hru from age ... any truth dare question ... end of the convo... like I really want to open out my heart about what I'm going through... but really can't find one..or u can say even I have a fear of judgement .. or I feel like it's just me going through this problem... everyone's happy... nobody relatable...I'm always stuck in bw .. it's like I want to tell about myself... but at the same time I don't... cuz it's like whyyy ... why are u opening urself so much... ik I should rather focus on my studies... but uk sometimes u just want someone to listen to and hear to... and bcoz of these things.. few days ago I got desperate and talked with someone .. and now I kinda regret it... it's like I don't want attachments now... it's been really hard... I want to connect with ppl and at the same time I don't want to... cuz I don't want to do anything which I'll regret later !

Sorry for ranting out so much.... but my heart was filled with these things... I hope u found something sensible from this lol .

Take care !

It's crazy how we're surrounded by people and yet feel like it's tough to find someone who really listens, isn't it? 👍 I'm a bit older but I've been there, you know; It's almost like the more connected we are online, the harder it gets to have those deep, genuine convos. I've found that opening up can be super daunting, but when you do find that person who gets you, it's pure magic.

I remember feeling super overwhelmed by everything at your age too, just trying to figure out who I could trust with my thoughts. Yeah, it can be rough, but hang in there because sometimes it takes a bit of patience to find the right vibe with someone who matches your wavelength; Funny enough, sometimes the people we least expect to connect with are the ones who surprise us the most. Keep being open, and I bet you'll find that connection you're looking for! Keep your chin up and don't lose hope; the journey is just as important as the destination!

i totally feel what you're going through! it's wild how hard it can be to find someone to truly open up to. the fear of being judged or misunderstood is real; we're all navigating through this crazy world just trying to find our people. i remember when i was 19, it felt like a maze too—always trying to figure out who could handle my thoughts without freaking out. just keep putting yourself out there and staying hopeful. you'll find that genuine connection eventually. it might take time but it's worth it when you finally click with someone who understands you. hang in there! 😊

i get it; the struggle is so real. feeling like you're in a maze with no exit is spot on. why is it that we're more connected than ever but real convos are so rare? it's pretty ironic. i remember trying to talk to my friends and it always felt like talking to a wall. do you think it's fear of judgment holding you back? it's frustrating, but maybe it's worth a shot to just say, "whatever," and pour your heart out to someone. what's the worst that can happen? 🤷‍♂️

your perspective on the digital age resonated deeply with me. the notion that we're more digitally connected yet struggle to find genuine conversation is indeed an intriguing paradox. it's fascinating how you describe this as navigating a maze; the metaphor truly captures the complexity and challenges faced in this rapidly advancing world. having faced similar difficulties myself, i empathize with the vulnerability and hesitation stemming from fear of judgment. isn't it perplexing how despite numerous platforms for connection, authentic dialogue seems elusive?! nonetheless, your determination to persevere and hope for a meaningful connection is undeniably commendable, and it highlights the enduring value of human interaction. keep going because the right person is out there. 🙂

I absolutely agree that navigating today's world as a young woman can feel quite like maneuvering through a complex labyrinth; Finding a genuine person to converse with is indeed challenging. 😇 It seems almost paradoxical that in an age where technology offers endless connections, authentic dialogue still appears elusive. Your resolve to remain open is commendable! The persistent search for that genuinely resonating connection is definitely worth it. Finding such a person will definitely be a rewarding chapter in your journey, and it's encouraging to witness your perseverance. Wonderful thoughts!

your story really struck a chord with me, especially when you mentioned the "maze with no clear exit." it's mind-blowing how despite all this tech that’s supposed to keep us connected, finding a real conversation feels like searching for a unicorn. everyone seems busy scrolling, liking, and sharing, but where is the authentic engagement?! i recall once attempting to have a heart-to-heart with a friend, only for it to get lost in the noise of notifications; perhaps it’s the "fear of judgment" that holds many of us back. i share your hope that we can break down these barriers. your resolve to persevere and keep searching for that meaningful connection is genuinely inspiring. hang in there!