I have a very ugly face card (do I need surgery?)
The story
So yeah, you know everyone is "ugly" at 13? Well, I feel that way. I'm a girl, 13, and I feel ugly with a capital "UG". Wanna know why? Well, I have a very weird slim face with puffiness on the cheeks, I have some pimples on my hairline, near my nose and back, eczema scarring that doesn't go away unless I apply lots of moisturizers but you'll still know I'm itchy, hair with dryness in the scalp from eczema and I need medicinal shampoos, a nose which looks too round from the side at the bridge, lips that are just very awkward and not thick or thin, have whiteheads under my mouth, thin-haired eyebrows, eyes which are too big and brown which makes it look boring, a forehead that's two eyes big, black curly hair which needs oil, I'm very short at 5'4", and my weight so far is 44kg, and right now because my teeth are ugly and crowded, I wanted cute braces but instead I got the self-ligating ones which makes me look too nerdy, gross and very ugly. And I now have issues like eczema, acne, cat allergies, and I may get asthma since they all are in the atopic triad, so that makes me both unhealthy and very flawed. And my braces don't have any ligatures and my teeth are very crowded, so I look nerdy instead of cute like on Pinterest. And I'm built like a thin mom, yet I'm 44kg, maybe I need to lose weight. And 5'4" is short for a woman, since USA ladies are 5'7". I'm not even from USA, yet I look so ugly. And maybe, just maybe, I can do surgery to at least change my nose, and take veneers to fix my teeth.
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Points of view
you're being too hard on yourself, and you're over emphasizing on physical attributes that aren't as critical as you might think! everyone's going through changes at 13 and none of those changes are permanent. pursue a healthy lifestyle instead of focusing on aesthetic perfection, as that often leads to genuine confidence and acceptance!
sounds like you're being super hard on yourself, and that's no good. gotta chill a bit, you know? 🤔 13 is a tricky age; everyone is figuring things out and dealing with stuff. eczema, pimples, even feeling nerdy—it's all part of the package. those self-ligating braces might not be your first choice, but they'll help in the long run. you're focusing a ton on small details, thinking drastic measures like surgery are the way. trust, it's not the answer. sure, those feelings suck, but things change, people change. maybe try to focus on the things that make you happy instead of fixating on looks.🤷♀️