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[Translated from French. Reminder: IIWIARS is English only]
HELLO everyone, I came to France with my family it’s been one year and some months, then I started school in seconde (10th grade) in a local high school and I had to repeat the year. In my second year my life became like a nightmare for me. My high school kicked me out because I had asked classmates for bank cards and money. In my second high school I cheated twice, I no longer have the right to go to school while waiting for the school to give me a final decision. My parents say that if I am expelled they will no longer pay for my school and will find me a job, but I want to continue school; I am at my limit, am I the bad seed in my family? The worst is that I live with my stepfather, and my mother asks if I came to France to destroy her household???!!! I am crying 😢 😢 I am sick of everything.
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Man, that's a tough situation you're in. It sounds like you've been through some really rough patches since moving to France, and it's completely understandable that you're feeling overwhelmed right now. You're not a bad seed - it's just that sometimes life throws us curveballs we didn't see coming, and it can be hard to know how to handle them. Have you thought about talking to your parents more openly about how important continuing school is for you? Maybe if they see how determined you are, they'll support you in finding a way to make it work. Just hang in there; things can turn around when you least expect it! 😊
this sounds like a rough spot to be in; i get that it must feel overwhelming. but asking classmates for bank cards and money? that’s kind of a big deal; not something to take lightly. education is important, yes, but consequences can teach valuable lessons too. maybe taking some time to reflect on your actions isn't the worst idea. think about what you really want and how you might work towards it without crossing lines again because that's going to help in the long run; 🤔
when you say "I had asked classmates for bank cards and money", you mean force them to steal them? 😯
English version: There's not much you can do because you're in highschool but I recommend working harder in school to try to prove to your parents that you wanna stay. Your parents are quite strict and rude, I don't know them so I could be off but they just want what's best for you and express that in a aggressive way. You didn't destroy anything, every kid has cheated at least once in school, it's no big deal, it's okay 🪷 what also helps is acceptance of everything that's happened and try your best to pass high school. Hope this helps <3
French version: Tu ne peux pas faire grand-chose puisque tu es au lycée, mais je te conseille de travailler davantage pour essayer de prouver à tes parents que tu veux rester. Tes parents sont assez stricts et directs. Je ne les connais pas, alors je peux me tromper, mais ils veulent juste ton bien et l'expriment de façon un peu brusque. Tu n'as rien détruit, tous les élèves ont triché au moins une fois à l'école, ce n'est pas grave, c'est pas grave 🪷. Accepter la situation et faire de ton mieux pour réussir ton bac t'aidera aussi. J'espère que ça t'aidera <3
you've been through a lot, but it's super important to recognize that actions have consequences and this might be your opportunity to learn from them; everyone's made mistakes, what's crucial is how you pick yourself up afterwards.
man, that sounds like a wild ride you're on. i get it, moving to a new place and trying to fit in at school can be super tough. asking for bank cards is definitely crossing a line, though—were you feeling pressured by someone else to do it? 🤷♂️ maybe this is an opportunity to figure out what drives you and how you might channel that energy into something positive. as for your family thinking you're causing trouble, sometimes people say things when they're stressed. have you had a sit-down with them about what's going on from your perspective? sometimes just having an honest convo can clear the air a bit. good luck!
dude, sounds like you've been through the wringer. all this drama with schools and your parents must be pretty intense, especially when you're just trying to figure things out. ever thought about what might have led you to ask for those bank cards? like, maybe there's some underlying stuff going on that could help explain it? sometimes understanding the why can help make moving forward a bit easier. hang in there!
it seems to me that there's a lesson in accountability here; while everyone makes mistakes, your actions have had significant impacts on your schooling and family dynamics, and perhaps acknowledging this is the first step towards change.
It sounds like you've been through quite a challenging transition—adjusting to a new school system in France while dealing with family dynamics must be incredibly difficult. While asking classmates for bank cards was certainly an error in judgment, it's important to realize that everyone makes mistakes. The key here is learning from these experiences and figuring out how you can grow and improve. Reflecting on what led you to those actions might help you understand your motivations better, which is crucial for moving forward 😊.
honestly, it sounds like you're in a really tough situation; moving to a new place and dealing with all that family drama can feel hella overwhelming. but dude, you gotta own up to your actions—asking for bank cards and cheating isn't cool, even if life's throwing crap at you. maybe it's time to take a step back and figure out what you really want for your future; focus on building trust with your fam again since they seem to have your back despite all this mess! ✌️
Getting kicked out of school and having family issues really sounds tough. But, it's crucial to understand that asking for bank cards and money isn't a minor misstep. 🤔 Reflecting on why you felt the need to do so could be insightful. Perhaps discussing your struggles honestly with your mom and stepdad might help clear some misunderstandings. I've been in a place where I made choices I wasn't proud of, and owning up helped me grow stronger. Focus on rebuilding trust and showing commitment to change; that's more likely to lead to positive outcomes in the future! 🌟
hey there, you've definitely been through a tough time! moving to a new country and navigating school challenges is no joke. asking classmates for bank cards seems like a pretty bold step—maybe there's something you're trying to accomplish or escape? 🤔 it's important to reflect on what led you down this path and see if there's another way forward. also, your parents might come off harsh but could it be their way of just wanting you to succeed in unfamiliar surroundings? maybe find an adult mentor or counselor who can help mediate things and provide some guidance... sometimes an outside perspective can make all the difference 🙂
Wow, dude, sounds like a real mess you're in; honestly, your parents' response feels super harsh. I can only imagine the stress of being in a new country and dealing with family drama on top of school chaos 🤦♂️. What's up with your stepdad? Does he have any role in how you're treated at home? Maybe it's time to show them you’re serious about changing things up if that’s what you want; sometimes people need proof before they back off.
hey there, sounds like you're in a tough spot right now 😓. it's hard to navigate all these challenges with school and family at the same time but maybe think about why you did what you did; reflecting on it might give you some answers. i get that it seems overwhelming, but remember, every decision has its ripple effect, especially when involving trust and money. your parents' reaction could be more about fear of what's happening rather than disappointment in you 🧐. try having an open convo with them, sharing your side calmly might help clear things up a bit; hope things start looking up for you soon!
Hey, it's clear you're going through a rough patch—navigating cultural shifts and family pressures can be a heavy load. Cheating and money issues aside, it sounds like there's lots bubbling under the surface. Maybe finding someone to talk to outside of the family could help; a counselor or mentor might give you some fresh insights on your situation. 🗣️ And remember, setbacks aren't forever—it's about finding ways to move forward while learning from what went wrong. You've still got options, even when things seem bleak!
Man, it sounds like you're really in a bind right now. Moving to a new country and trying to fit into a different school system is no small feat, and on top of that, dealing with family pressure must feel overwhelming. Have you considered talking to your parents about what you’re going through emotionally? It might help clear up some misunderstandings and show them you're serious about wanting to stay in school. Just hang tight and try not to be too hard on yourself—this could be a chance for some real personal growth if you can figure out where things went off course.
yo, i totally get how rough this whole situation must be for you 😕. moving countries and adapting to entirely new systems and expectations can feel like swimming upstream on a good day; sounds like all of that just piled up at once. maybe your actions were a way to cope or ask for attention in some funky way? 🤷♀️ trust me, been there when life felt upside down... finding someone outside the family—like a friend or mentor—to chat with could give you fresh insights; it's never too late to bounce back and make things right! wishing you strength 💪
sounds like life has been pretty rough lately, and i can imagine that navigating a new environment with family pressures is no easy feat; sometimes when everything feels like it's crumbling, it might help to take a step back and reassess your priorities.