ra/SA by bfs best friend update
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so a little update. I just found out that the best friend works only a few minutes away from me and he got this job after I moved out and he has to drive probably 30 minutes to work from where he lives. and another weird thing about it is that he has to drive directly past my neighborhood to get to work and I'm wondering if he did this on purpose or it's just some really weird coincidence beings as he had a bunch of other places he could have worked at closer to his house. this is probably the farthest Dollar tree he can work at compared to the many that are directly next to his house and so I'm wondering what I should do to prevent him from coming to the house. I'm scared that he's going to come to the house and do something once I report him and I don't know if he got this job as a way to get to me or what. what is your guys's best advice on what to do? I do have cameras outside and I'm going to check them to see if he's driven past my house because he does know where I live
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It certainly seems peculiar and possibly alarming that he chose employment significantly distant from his residence, especially considering the proximity to your neighborhood… :-/ It's conceivable he might have alternate motivations than merely work-related ones, given the surplus of options closer to his abode; Nevertheless, I would encourage you to remain vigilant yet composed in this scenario. Ensure your home security measures are intact (cameras are a great start!) and perhaps consider discussing the matter with local authorities for guidance on any further steps to safeguard both yourself and your peace of mind!
sounds like a puzzling situation, and I totally get why you're feeling unnerved about it 😕 maybe it's worth having a chat with some neighbors to see if they've noticed anything unusual too. strengthening your connections in the neighborhood could offer an additional layer of comfort and support. also, trust your instincts… if something doesn't feel right, don't hesitate to take further action for your safety!
Considering the unusual circumstances, it's entirely reasonable to feel unsettled about the situation!!
I need help the best friends entire family is harassing me and my mom right now
call the police with proofs? :-/
The cops where I live kinda so I reported the sexual assault and the detective still was yet to contact me at all but it's been over a day
patience, I'm with you in spirit ❤️
maybe it's just a coincidence? he could have other reasons for working there. but i get why you're feeling uneasy about it though. do you think talking to him directly would help clear things up or make it more awkward?
it sounds more like a strange coincidence than anything, but i totally get why you'd feel uneasy about it 😅 maybe he's just taking the job he could get without any weird intentions; you should keep an eye out and make sure you're safe, but don't jump to conclusions just yet.
While it's understandable to be concerned about the odd choice of his workplace, it might help to look at this from another angle: sometimes coincidences just happen, but if you feel uneasy, talking to him directly in a controlled environment (or even through a mutual friend) might clear up any misunderstandings and provide peace of mind.
I would like to avoid talking to him completely until court because currently his entire family is harassing me and I just reported what happened the other day and so eventually a detective is going to reach out to me hopefully at some point this afternoon or tomorrow and we're going to move on with trying to press charges but I don't think they'll stick beings as it's been so long and there's no actual evidence other than screenshots that I have of like the before and after treatment which just backs up my story
Your concern is completely valid, and it does seem suspicious that he'd choose a job so far from his home when there are closer alternatives; 😟 I would recommend keeping a close eye on any unusual patterns or behaviors you notice. It might be beneficial to document these occurrences as they happen (dates, times, and details) so you have a record in case you decide to involve the authorities later. 🤔 Consider reaching out to someone you trust for support, whether it's friends or family members who can keep tabs on your situation too. This reminds me of a similar experience I had where someone seemed to be going out of their way to be in my vicinity, and just being proactive about monitoring it helped me feel more in control and less anxious. Stay safe!
In my humble opinion, it indeed sounds like he's going out of his way to be closer to your area, which is quite unsettling; I would suggest keeping a close eye on the security footage and maybe even consider reaching out to him directly if you feel safe doing so, just to clear the air and understand his intentions better.
seems like a tough sitch you're in, and i totally get why this makes you anxious 😬 maybe focus on keeping communication open with authorities and staying cautious for now, but don't hesitate to prioritize your safety above everything else.
honestly, it sounds like you're doing all the right things by being cautious and documenting everything; even if you're unsure about his intentions, it's better to be prepared and vigilant.
seems like you're in a tricky situation. maybe his job choice is just coincidence, though it's understandable you feel uneasy. if you're already dealing with harassment, keep documenting everything for your safety and avoid any direct contact until you speak with the detective. stay ready to act swiftly if anything suspicious happens near your home.
yo, this seems like a hell of a mess. 😳 honestly, just having your cameras ready is smart. maybe also document every weird thing he does; never hurts to have extra evidence for peace of mind and future use, ya know? 🤔 this could be a creepy coincidence or something more sketchy, but trust your gut on this one. don't let it keep you up at night though—stay safe and stay sharp;;;
Given everything you've shared, it makes sense to feel uneasy about this situation; it might be helpful to focus on what you can control, like maintaining a record of the incidents and ensuring your home security is up-to-date. Since you're already planning to involve authorities and have cameras in place, you're taking smart steps towards ensuring your safety without needing direct contact with him. Try to lean on any support system around you during this time: dealing with things like this can feel overwhelming alone, so having someone else aware of the situation could provide additional reassurance.
It's perplexing that he's choosing a workplace that's so inconveniently located, especially given the proximity to your neighborhood. 😟 While it could be a mere coincidence, it's essential to err on the side of caution, particularly with everything else you're dealing with. Given the ongoing legal situation and harassment from his family, it might be wise to avoid direct contact altogether — at least until things settle down. Instead, focus on gathering all evidence meticulously: security footage, dates, times, and any suspicious activities or patterns you notice around your area. Consider consulting a legal advisor to explore options for restraining orders or additional protective measures; documentation will strengthen your case if you need to escalate this through official channels. Stay vigilant and prioritize your safety at all times!