Family problems
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I can't stand my mom anymore I am living in her emotions and I just can't take it anymore. I don't even know where too start. It's like when she's in good mood I need to be like her too and she will buy me things I didn't even ask for and be super nice too me and all and then on the days that she's in bad mood everything is my fault she start too yell at me for nothing like this one time when she was coughing and I didn't ask her if she was ok and she started to crash out on me and then bring out every thing that she did when she was in good mood and say that she does so much thing for me and that I never do anything and sometime almost always she hits me, insult me and make me feel so bad. I just can't live in her emotions. I am lost and on the verge of depression I don't know what to do and I'm lost. Please give me advice it will mean the world to me
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It sounds like you're dealing with a rollercoaster of emotions that no one should have to endure. Emotional whiplash from someone close, especially a parent, can be incredibly draining. I'm really sorry you're in this situation. It's critical to establish some boundaries for your own mental well-being, but I know that's easier said than done. Have you considered seeking support from friends or perhaps a therapist who can provide you with some coping strategies? It might help create a buffer between her moods and your peace of mind…
Yes I have though about that but I don't really have a very trusted friend or adult to talk to and I don't have a therapist because I'm way to shy to talk to someone I don't really know I have trust issues also...
Look, I get you're feeling trapped like a bug in amber but relying on her mood swings as your emotional compass is only gonna sink you faster; emotions are communicable diseases: it's time to build immunity....