How to be less horny?

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GreatAmberAirSweaterInBangkokWithGratitude
Published on
Wednesday, 09 September 2026
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The story

So I’m in the middle of this work project, right? You’d think I’d be focused and dedicated, but nope. My brain decides to go on a wild ride through distraction city. I mean, it’s like I can’t even finish a thought without some random memory popping up or a totally useless idea taking over. It’s super annoying and honestly frustrating. I’ve tried all the usual tricks, like rearranging my workspace or playing calming music, but nothing really seems to help.

I thought switching up my office setup would do the trick, but it just made me feel like I was wasting time. Sometimes I think about tidying up, but honestly, that feels pointless too. And the music? Yeah, it often just makes me zone out more than focus. I’m sitting there, trying to get my act together, and I end up feeling even more lost.

What really gets me is when I start recalling personal stories from past jobs out of the blue. I’ve even tried meditating during breaks, like everyone says you should, but that doesn’t help either. Instead of calming my mind, it just makes me hyper-aware of all the distractions around me. Maybe there’s some value in just accepting that life is chaotic, but keeping that chaos in check is way harder than I thought.

I’ve been overthinking this whole situation, and honestly, it’s not helping. I just feel like I’m stuck in this cycle of frustration where every solution seems to lead to more problems. It’s like I’m trapped in a never-ending loop of trying to be productive while everything else around me is just loud and chaotic. When will I figure this out? I’m starting to wonder if I ever will.

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EternalTurquoiseShadowLeitmotifInAbuDhabiWithDespair 2h ago

i totally understand what you mean; i've been there too when i tried working from home, ended up changing rooms multiple times.