Missing out on a lot. (FOMO, I guess)

hey, your feelings are valid and it's normal to feel overwhelmed at times; nobody's life path needs to follow the "social norms" like partying or being reckless; you're not "unremarkable" just because you haven’t done those things. focusing on your strengths can be a game changer, maybe your art and writing could be your creative outlet where you truly shine. it's not just about weight or taking reckless risks, but about embracing who you really are inside. referencing the famous quote from Oscar Wilde, "be yourself; everyone else is already taken," might provide some perspective. exploring identities and roles can be messy, but it's a process worth engaging in.

i completely understand where you're coming from, and it is perfectly normal to feel that way. many people experience periods in their lives where they feel invisible or disconnected, and it can be challenging to navigate those emotions. embracing your unique qualities and attributes is vital, and recognizing that everyone has their own timeline and journey can bring some comfort 😊. self-discovery often involves a lot of trial and error, and that's perfectly okay. you might want to consider exploring different activities or communities where you can express yourself more freely, as these experiences could offer new perspectives and connections. staying positive and focusing on self-growth can open up opportunities and pathways that you might not expect.

Tbh I missed being a teen if you have the money you can do literally whatever you want but if you don't you are stuck on a limbo. You are still young , go find what's best for you. I am pretty sure that things are going to get better along the way! You have another 50 years to get whatever you want in life better than feeling too late to have fun too late to have job too late to have a family

i hear you, but it sounds like you're maybe being a little harsh on yourself; i've been there too––feeling like everyone else is living this picture-perfect life while i'm stuck in the meh zone. but you know what? not having tried certain things like partying or sneaking out doesn’t make you unremarkable. my buddy thought the same way and later realized he was just measuring himself by someone else’s scale!!! life's not a checklist of experiences you have to tick off to be considered worth it. sometimes, those things aren't as glamorous or life-changing as they're hyped up to be, believe me. you're still figuring things out, and honestly, who isn't?!?

honestly, i totally get where you're coming from!!! it's like, no matter how hard you try; it feels like you're just running in circles and not getting anywhere. who cares about those parties or reckless adventures, right? they don't define your value!!! life's not some checklist where you have to do all these "cool" things to be somebody. i hate to say it, but the idea that you have to fit into some mold to be accepted is just messed up!!! your story is so real and relatable, and it sucks that it makes you feel this way. society throws all these expectations at us, and it's no wonder we feel like we're not measuring up.

i understand your feelings, and honestly, I agree with much of what you're saying. being "unremarkable" or feeling that you have missed out on experiences is something that many people grapple with, especially during adolescence. i've also felt like i was missing out on things during my high school years, but looking back, it was all part of my unique journey. whatever society deems as "normal" doesn’t have to define you. you have intrinsic value that goes beyond experiences or academic achievements. pursue interests that genuinely bring joy and fulfillment. your story resonates with many, and personal growth comes from embracing who you are, not who you think you should have been. you're on the right path to discovering more about yourself 😊.

I totally get what you're saying, and it makes complete sense. It's easy to feel like you're missing out when you see what others are up to. No need to compare yourself, though. Everyone's journey is different, and that's perfectly okay. There's a saying, "Comparison is the thief of joy," and it really hits the nail on the head. Keep doing you, chase what makes you happy, and know that you're not alone in feeling this way 😊.

i get what you're saying, and it pretty much hits home!!! yeah, missing out feels real, and it can be tough dealing with that. it’s hard not to doubt yourself when you see everyone out there doing what seems like amazing stuff!!! not sure where it all leads, but sometimes it's okay not to have it all figured out. life's unpredictable; maybe take it one step at a time and see what happens. you're doing your best, and that's what matters!!! no guarantees in life except for what you make of it. you're on your own path, even if it feels a bit rocky. 😊

I hear you, and I totally get where you're coming from. It really feels like there's societal pressure to do certain things, especially when you're young. "Be yourself," they say, but it's not always that simple, right? The struggle is real when you're trying to fit in and stand out at the same time; why is it so hard to find a balance? You're certainly not alone in feeling this way. Do you think focusing on building deeper connections in your current relationships might help ease the loneliness a bit? 😊

honestly, i kinda disagree with you here!!! sure, it feels rough and like you've missed out, but who says you have to do all those things to live a fulfilled life?!! i've known people who partied and broke all the rules; it didn't make them any happier or successful!!! you're focusing on what you think you're missing instead of what you have. yeah, it's tough to be plus-sized or to feel different, but that doesn't make you unwanted or less deserving of love. i was once caught up in all that too, thinking the grass was greener on the other side, but turns out it's all hype. how do you even know that you won’t find what you’re looking for in your current circle? 🤔

i hear you, but i gotta say, it sounds like you're being a bit hard on yourself. you might feel like you're missing out on experiences, but who decides what experiences are necessary to feel fulfilled, you know? i've been there, thinking i needed to fit a certain mold, but realized it's just not the case; i mean, partying and sneaking out aren't the only ways to live life fully. for real, a lot of those experiences might just be overhyped and won't actually bring you the happiness you're expecting. we place so much pressure on ourselves to have it all figured out, especially at your age, but truth is, many don't. what's more important is discovering who you are and what truly makes you happy 😊.