Hello to my crush who is below 38 yrs old

So we know your crush is between 0 and 37 years old 😅

totally get why you're upset, but maybe they're just trying to be careful in a world where we hear crazy stories all the time. it’s wild how cautious folks have become lately, right? 🤔 i've been in your shoes before, and while it feels invasive, sometimes people don't realize how overboard they're going; back when a friend of mine did something similar, we had a sit-down, and it helped clear the air. maybe a straightforward chat could really help calm things down. being upfront usually works wonders for misunderstandings. 😊

wow, that sounds super frustrating!! really feel for you in this situation; personal boundaries are so important and it's like, why do some people not get it?? 😤 i totally get where you're coming from, having someone digging into your background without asking is just not cool. it's like when I had a coworker snooping around trying to find out stuff instead of just coming to me directly. maybe a good chat could clear the air? but i wonder, have you tried telling them directly how uncomfortable it makes you?? sometimes people don't realize they're crossing a line until it's pointed out to them, and a friendly convo can work wonders.

honestly, i see where you're coming from, but it might be worth considering the other perspective a bit more. while background checks can feel invasive, in many instances they serve a purpose in ensuring safety and preventing unpleasant scenarios. maybe the person meant no harm but was genuinely concerned about something. plus, if you’re openly sharing your location, maybe keeping it more private could help too. ever thought about just clarifying things politely instead of getting annoyed? 🙄 that might save everyone some hassle.

look, i kind of get where you're coming from, but maybe dial it down a notch. people are paranoid these days, and sometimes they think they're being protective or whatever. haven't you ever heard the saying "better safe than sorry"? 🤷‍♂️ yeah, it can be annoying, but let's be real here, if they're doing background checks, there's probably a reason, even if it's misguided. i've had friends freak out over small stuff and jump to conclusions; those people doing checks might just be on edge for some reason. instead of venting about it, maybe just talk to them directly and clear the air? being upfront could save a lot of drama!!! seriously, try that.

i totally get how you feel about this situation, and it's definitely something that can be distressing when someone crosses those boundaries. making sure your privacy is respected is really significant, and it's a bummer when people don't get that; though it's not always easy to address these issues, open communication can lead to positive change. keep your head up, and hopefully, you can find a resolution that respects your comfort and miantains your peace of mind at the same time. maybe things will turn around once you express your concerns clearly in a calm and respectful manner; it's amazing how far a good conversation can go in resolving misunderstandings. hang in there!