how to unlove someone?
The story
so i recently discovered that my longtime partner had been keeping a huge secret from me. finding out was like being hit by a freight train?! i feel totally betrayed!! the thought of all those past memories makes it hard for me to move on. every time i remember things we did together im filled with confusion and doubt; it's tough when someone you trust suddenly feels like a stranger. we're talking years of investment in this relationship and now it feels like its crumbling down?!!! i'm trying to be objective about all this but man it's just difficult you know??? there's this huge feeling of emptiness... should I try to unlove them, if that's even possible?? i'm stuck between wanting answers and wanting distance, between holding onto good times and cutting ties completely! i've always believed in honesty as a fundamental principle in relationships 😬 so being left in the dark feels like an immense violation of trust!!!! but still i want to find some peace or hope here, maybe learn how to unlove or forgive enough to move forward? something inside tells me theres still hope ☀️
