I kinda which I have this mentality forever
The story
I don’t want to need people. I don’t want to want people. I don’t want to care about people. Like these couple of months (and can even say years) ive have really tried looking for someone , someone really close to like a best friend if someone would say. I feel like that’s what made me really sad like in movies it’s always ‘I will always have that one person’ like bro why can’t it be more idolized that people don’t have anyone, they have themselves ABD are still happy. I’m not tryna be depressed on this whole ‘self-isolation’ thing but it’s really not guaranteed that you’d ever find someone. Like I want to learn about be COMPLETELY happy alone. Like genuinely have tried making friends but NO everyone has their person. This doesn’t help that the shows I grew up with always revolve around friends and ‘best friends’ . And ik all that stuff about ‘humans are social creatures’ shut up .
Just trying to find someone leads me to disappointment and it just hurts tryna find my person. Wish I have the mentality of not needing anyone this week did somehow start like that. But a fight happened in school and I just taught of how nice it would have been to have friends to talk about it. Like so a lot of my plans have actually tried to make me cope with this by tryna find someone that also relates to my situation. But idek
Well I think that’s it?
Hopefully no one’s gonna be like ‘don’t worry you will find your person’ ‘it will be worth the wait when you get them’ ‘it’s hard having no friends’
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Points of view
dude, what’s this obsession with not needing people??? everybody wants some connection, so stop acting like you’re above it all; it’s like you’re saying “to be or not to be” but with friends, which is just a bit much. i mean, come on, life isn’t a movie, and honestly, who cares if it is??? real talk, humans are wired to connect, so maybe chill with that ‘‘humans are social creatures’ shut up’’ attitude. no one’s saying you’ve got to find "the one," but opening up might not hurt, ya know??? maybe try focusing on what makes you happy, instead of getting stuck on what’s missing. friends come and go, but so do moods, so why not give it a shot??? you might be surprised at how things turn out. keep your chin up, dude!!
Stfu did u even read it?😭
he doesn't look like it or he's stupid 😅
don’t worry you will find your person!
I'm kidding ;-) but... what you told us not to say is exactly the kind of thing i wanted to say 😥
same here, sorry :(
hey there, i get where you're coming from, but let’s chill for a sec. not having that “one person” doesn't mean you’re doomed, ya know??? 😅 i've been there too, thinking everyone else has their person while i’m just floating around solo. but guess what??? that’s just life’s way of telling you to explore! everyone is on their own journey. i know it sounds cheesy, but sometimes “the best things happen when you’re not looking.” there have been moments in my life when i thought i was alone and then, bam! i met some cool people unexpectedly. have you thought about trying new hobbies or just hanging out in different spots??? you never know who you might bump into! keep your eyes and heart open; life might just surprise you with some awesome connections. 😊✨
yeah, i totally feel you on this. wanting to not need people can be tough. 🤷♂️ i mean, who needs all that drama, right? but “no man is an island,” you know? it's kinda ingrained in us. it’s frustrating for sure when everyone seems to have their crew or whatever. but hey, you might just find that being solo ain't all that bad either. focus on doing your own thing and see where it takes you. people come and go, and that's just how it rolls. keep your head up, and who knows, maybe you’ll find that “one person” when you least expect it! 😉