i witnessed my crush kiss and flirt with her boyfriend
The story
what the title says. i was over the fact that she had a boyfriend, but having this memory adds a whole new layer and reignites the fire. it's a very very deep emptiness in my chest and i feel like a total manchild reacting so much to this. please don't give me advice on this it's totally just me venting and coping with the feeling
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hey there, i totally get where you're coming from; it's tough when old feelings surface. 😕 but is it possible that this memory is just a reminder of something unresolved rather than the core issue? sometimes we hold onto these memories like talismans of what might have been, and our minds play tricks on us. i've been there too.. like rereading old chapters in a book instead of moving forward. do you feel it's more about her or something deeper within yourself that's causing this emotional flux?
it's intriguing how the mind clings to certain memories, almost like an emotional haunt; perhaps there's an underlying lesson or message still unlearned?!
Man, I get that you're venting but isn't it kinda tricky to blame a memory for how you feel? 🤔 Memories are weird, sure, but they don't have power unless we give them; sounds like there might be more going on beneath the surface. Maybe it's time to shift focus from the past and onto what's happening in the present!
Dude, seriously?!
bro, i get it's tough but maybe you're just feeding the nostalgia monster too much 😉 like, if you focus on what you got going for you, maybe those memories won't hit so hard; we've all been stuck in our heads running circles around 'what-ifs' instead of enjoying the now, right?
Honestly, it sounds like you're letting yourself spiral over something you can't control. 😒 We've all been there, stuck on a loop of "what ifs." But is dwelling really worth the emotional energy? Think back to a time when you got over something similar and maybe channel that resilience. Personally, I've found that focusing on new experiences helps break the cycle: like rewriting your own narrative instead of revisiting old scripts... :)
oh man, i totally feel you!!! sometimes those memories just hit outta nowhere and it's like reliving the whole thing again... i'm not gonna lie, it can really throw you for a loop when you're least expecting it!! but honestly, feeling this way is part of being human, you know? it's all about riding that wave of emotion and finding something positive in it. keep your chin up; things do get better with time!!