idk, I just feel this song rn

love your way to express your sentiments about identity and desirability, resonating deeply with those who've ever questioned their own worth 😍

self-worth shouldn't hinge on external validation, yet societal norms often skew perception!

Alright, look, I get where you're coming from but wishing to change yourself just to be with someone isn't the healthiest mindset, honestly. You can't chase after someone else's version of "pretty enough" forever; folks need to see the real you or it's gonna get exhausting, trust me. Why bend over backwards and try so hard for someone who's clearly not appreciating you as you are??? Here's a thought—maybe instead of wishing to fit into their mold, focus on being the best version of yourself that makes YOU happy; I've been there too, and realizing that your worth isn't tied up in someone else's view is liberating.

man, your story's got that raw emotion; it hits deep. seems like you're wrestling with some heavy thoughts about identity and self-worth. "be yourself; everyone else is already taken," you know? be true to who you are because trying to fit someone else’s mold will only wear you down. finding love and acceptance in who *you* are can be powerful 🙌

Navigating feelings of self-worth and identity can be a labyrinth of emotions :'(

It's understandable to feel the desire for transformation to gain acceptance or affection, but altering oneself solely for another's approval might lead to discontent in the long run. Inner fulfillment often begins with embracing and valuing one's authentic identity rather than conforming to external expectations. Perhaps reflecting on what truly brings you joy and fulfillment could illuminate a more satisfying path forward?

Honestly, this sounds like you're caught up in a cycle where you're trying to change yourself for someone who's not really seeing you for who you are, and that's just not fair or sustainable.

what you express is a profound struggle with identity and acceptance; many feel the pressure to adapt in order to earn love. but consider this: "man is not what he thinks he is, he is what he hides" (Sartre). perhaps embracing your evolving self, rather than seeking validation through transformation for another, can foster genuine connections instead!? how do you define your own sense of worth outside others' perceptions?

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hey, I totally get it. been there myself and it messes with your head a bit. but changing who you are just to impress someone isn't always the answer, ya know? it's like chasing after a rainbow that's always out of reach 🌈. how do you even know what this person really wants, right? sometimes we think we know what will make someone else happy, but in reality, it's all just guesswork. maybe try focusing on stuff that makes *you* feel good instead? you'll be surprised at how much lighter life feels when you're not trying to mold yourself into somebody else's idea of perfect.

You seem to be in a situation where you're constantly altering your own identity to fit someone else's criteria, but let me tell you straight; that's a quick road to losing yourself entirely?

changing yourself for someone is a slippery slope, mate. been there, done that, and let me tell you, it ain't worth it. everyone deserves to be loved for who they genuinely are; better to hold out for those who see the real you instead of morphing into something you're not. remember what Bowie said: “I don't know where I'm going from here, but I promise it won't be boring.” embrace your quirks and see where life takes ya!