if you miss someone can they feel it?
The story
i was scrolling through my phone, staring at the last text from my boyfriend – "hey, feeling really sick, won't make it to school today." it has only been two weeks since we made it official, and it's crazy how much i miss him already. i mean, is it normal to feel this way? i can't help but wonder if somehow, on some level, he can feel just how much i genuinely miss him. is there like some secret connection or vibe that gets sent out into the universe when you miss someone? 'cause if there is, i'm sending all the good vibes his way.
it's funny how one can become so attached so quickly; like, wow. some might say that's part of the teenage experience, and maybe it is. i've heard about other girls feeling this way for their boyfriends, and honestly, i kinda thought it was a bit cheesy. never thought i’d be the one writing this. 🤦♀️ i'm sure he's not super into cheese (the metaphorical kind), but i bet he'd appreciate knowing just how much i care. can't call him though, 'cause his mom says he's resting. just sitting here, my mind constantly battles between wondering if i should send him a "get well" card or just wait until he's feeling better. decisions, decisions, am i right?
idk if anybody else feels or felt this way, but sometimes when you miss someone, it's like they’re always on your mind. every little thing reminds me of him – even the school cafeteria food reminds me of the time we joked about how bad it is. and don’t get me started about the classes we share. sitting in those classes without him feels neither here nor there. it's almost as if not attending classes together changes everything, makes it less exciting. maybe it's because i'm a naturally nostalgic person, or maybe it’s because our bond is still so fresh. you think it's silly, don't you? or can you relate to this?
in conclusion, missing someone seems like a weird roller coaster of emotions, and who knows if he'll ever feel the vibes i'm sending his way. life can be a bit sketchy, but i guess that's just how it goes. i just hope he gets better soon, 'cause i’m over here trying to play it cool when really, all i want is for him to feel better and return to school to turn my frown upside down. do you think love and longing have some secret telepathic power? or maybe i'm just dreaming up a fairytale cause this is the first time i've felt this way. either way, if there’s some cosmic connection, i'm all ears, waiting to see if he'll ever feel those vibes. 😍
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Totally get where you're coming from!!!
It's wild how missing someone can make everyday things remind you of them, right? 🤷♂️
I think it's part of the human experience... no cosmic connection needed for that. 😅
And honestly, a "get well" card sounds like a sweet idea to show him you care, even if he might not feel those vibes instantly; life's full of little uncertainties like this. Just let things flow naturally and see where your feelings take you!
It's fascinating how, in behavioral psychology, the attachment theory explains this intense connection: we often form these deep bonds quickly due to our innate need for emotional security and support; have you considered exploring why this bond feels so poignant for you right now?
hey, i totally feel you on this one! it’s incredible how quickly we get attached; the emotional intensity seems like a hallmark of new relationships. 😌 i don't know about telepathic love powers, but i honestly think communicating how you feel, even if it's just through a thoughtful text or card, can mean a lot. maybe give him some space now and see where things go once he's back; after all, relationships are just as much about patience as they are about connection. plus, absence might make the heart grow fonder; 🤔 take care!
it's understandable to feel such a strong connection early on; sometimes emotions can really amplify quickly in relationships, especially when they're new and exciting. i remember feeling similarly with my first relationship, but over time, i learned that it's crucial to maintain a sense of individuality even while being so close to someone else. perhaps instead of waiting for some telepathic connection, it might be beneficial to focus on activities that keep you grounded while he’s unwell; after all, nurturing yourself alongside your relationship is equally important 🌟
Reading your story, honestly, it sounds a bit over the top; teenage relationships can be intense but maybe try to chill a bit. 🤦♂️ Not sure about this whole "secret connection" or telepathic vibes thing; seems like wishful thinking to me; If you want him to know you care, send the card whenever you feel like it and see how he responds' No need to overthink every little gesture in new relationships. Keep it simple and genuine.
man, i get what you're saying... it's like when you're totally into someone, everything around you becomes a reminder of them!! weird how that works, right?!? 😅 maybe there's no cosmic telepathy happening, but feelings can reach people in more subtle ways: like the kind gestures you show. sometimes, just being supportive silently speaks volumes. sending him positive vibes is sweet and thinking of getting a card shows you genuinely care!!! honestly, maybe give yourself some time to feel things out; these emotions are part of growing closer to someone special!
no shame in feeling all the feels, honestly 😅 it's pretty common to catch those strong vibes early on in a relationship, especially when everything's still fresh and exciting. i mean, who hasn't been there? it really can be like a crazy roller coaster of emotions like you mentioned. i'd say trust your gut with sending him that "get well" card; it's a sweet gesture and shows you care without being too overbearing. sometimes just putting your thoughts into action can help clear up any internal debate you've got going on. hang tight 'cause he'll probably appreciate knowing you're thinking about him while he's recovering!