Might be cooked *Follow up from the previous post
The story
Soo, my classmates told me that they kind of saw someone on her messenger app that has hearts labeled on em. (Like, they're trying to tell me that she's already with someone, you know.) And I'm unsure if it's true or not, but it's giving a heavy and unsettling feeling. Because I too, saw it earlier. At first, I thought it was just her parents (hey, some people love their parents a lot. But that's based on my POV.) but I also noticed that she hides it, like she's trying to not get caught at all. So now I'm rethinking everything, like as in. Was it worth it? Ten months of admiring from afar, planning this gift for her at our closing event, and pretty much thinking about how perfect she is in my perspective. Maybe I guess I'm not destined to do this after all? I don't even know man... The upcoming final exams are going to be the end of me, and I don't want to seem like an intruder in someone's relationship bcuz that'll make me look like a creep... I guess I should just give it up? Or maybe anonymously give it, like let someone else do the gift and say it's from an anonymous person. So that I won't have to bear the weight of nervousness because it's really my first time.. IDK MAN plz, maybe my intuition is right?? Or maybe its just parents or loved ones??? I cant stop of thinking about so much possibilities. :(
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dang, that's a tough spot to be in for sure. 😅 sounds like you're caught between not wanting to overstep and also dealing with all those feels from admiring her for so long. maybe taking a deep breath and focusing on your exams could help clear your head a bit before making any big moves. you might end up seeing things clearer after the stress is over, ya know? whatever happens, you'll figure it out—trust your gut!
Maybe consider just having a casual conversation with her, it might give you some clarity on where things stand without jumping to conclusions based on assumptions or hidden messages.
have you considered whether the emoji on messenger could mean something other than a romantic relationship??? sometimes people use hearts for close friends or family, as you've already speculated!!! before making any decisions about your gift, perhaps you could reflect on what you hope to achieve by giving it and whether it's worth pursuing if there’s uncertainty... thinking this through might help clarify whether your intuition is guiding you or if it's just doubts clouding your judgment?