not ready for that girlie
The story
so I have a lil crush on my friend Katy (I swear I've vented about her too much)
today she emailed me
and...
she asked if I would want to kiss her.
I do like her, but not THAT much, like I'd be fine with a kiss on the cheek but anything else is just a no for me
I'm just not ready for that
but Idk how to say it bc I don't want to upset her...
what do I do?
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Points of view
You have a crush on her, but not that much, it seems?!
The risk is missing your chance...
First, email and not text? Seems like I’m missing some context cause I’ve never emailed anyone for a kiss before😅. Also, don’t worry too much about whether or not you two kiss. Just say, hey, I think your cute, let’s go on a date first and see where it goes. If you’re still not feeling the kiss on the date say you had a great time and would love to go on another but that you’re not ready for a kiss yet. Don’t sweat it too much. She clearly likes you if she wants a kiss, you just need to decide if you like her back. If you don’t like her after the date, just be upfront. Just say, I don’t think I’m ready to date anyone or give out kisses.
Honestly, dude, I don't get why you're making such a big deal about a simple question 🤷♂️. Like, if you're not into it, just be straight-up with her. It's not like you're stabbing her in the back or anything; you're just being honest about your boundaries. You set the tone, and if she's chill, she'll respect it. You're making a mountain out of a molehill, and it's just not that deep. Plus, if she's a real friend, she'll get it. Just, you know, keep it real and all that jazz.
just tell her nicely and if she truly cared she would respect that, also is this who i think it is
I'd honestly take some time and think deeply on it (mentally and emotionally) what I do sometimes is think about if this is what my heart wants it or if I'm not ready for that stage, then I think with my brain if its worth it and if I should do it and what could happen either way, also communication is a w, talk to her and see what she would think, see if she can understand IF you are ready or if your NOT, plus I bet it took a lot of guts for her to pop that question too, do some comparing and if your mentally up for it or just not ready, remember there is no right or wrong, you always have a choice!
she seems like a lovely girly anyhow :)