Obsessed
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hey there.... rn I feel so good lol , uk why .. okay first let me tell you that I'm a 21 years old female...and I am rn at just so calm... I feel nothing inside me... and nothing outside... not in a good or bad way..but idk why i feel like it's a temporary feeling of calm... or u can say I calmed myself through non stop dopamine hits lol ... and that's bcoz ... there's this guy online whom I talk to daily...and I feel like omg I'm so obsessed with him.. with his voice..with his questions...with his banters... with him teasing me indirectly through questions lol...ughhh why it feels so good lol....I'm really obsessed with him...like I continuously check for his texts lol ... like yesterday we talked for about whole night...and slept in the morning lol...I'm really more in comfort talking to him rather than having sleep of 7 hours lol... which I can take later...sorry world I don't wanna hear ur advices for my health...I already know it lol... but I love this feeling lol... no we're not bf gf... but we just love talking to each other so much ...it gives us so much peace in the whole day lol...and today lol he slept at 2 am... so I was like why lol...ik lol that it's wrong to think that...both of our sleeps are imp.....ahhhh but I already miss him so much lol....this feeling god....I feel a new calm inside me.... like I don't feel like talking to anybody else online... I don't feel like watching a movie or any entertaining content....but I do want to so something else lol.... but ngl he's always on my mind lol.. can't do anything...when I get his text or vm ... ahh that dopamine hit lol....
idc what the world says that I'm distracted or anything.... cuz I love this feeling even if it's temporary lol..I already know that ur gonna say I'm distracted.... but this introvert girl got so much open to him lol about her life....that now there's a new confidence inside me lol...I love our talks really...I always miss him... don't judge me lol.... but this is what I feel rn lol
And chill ik the stuff that ur gonna say that focus on urself... don't fall for this temporary dopamine hit... don't get distracted ...
But hey world listen I'm obsessed to him can't do anything rn lol... just love this feeling lol...

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oh wow, always fascinating to see how people get lost in these online interactions, right??? reminds me of the time my cousin couldn't stop talking about this guy she met online and was convinced he was her soulmate!!! it's just temporary, though, isn't it? like everyone says, these dopamine hits from constant interaction can be so misleading!!! you think it's something more than it actually is!!! it's almost like that time i thought binge-watching a series made me feel connected to the characters more than actual people!!! talking to someone nonstop doesn't necessarily mean it's healthy or real connection, doesn't it??? wouldn't it be better to have a balanced approach rather than getting so caught up???? i mean, taking care of one's mental health is just as important as feeling these bursts of enthusiasm from new interactions, if you know what i mean???
Thank you for your reply ! So yeah ur correct that we should not be so caught up in these online interactions and should not consider it love etc , that's why I always keep in my mind that it's temporary... he's not my soulmate... like every second I keep reminding me that bcoz ofc yeah I don't want to get caught up in these things and be hurted at the end .. but uk I just love talking to him rn...and if this is a temporary feeling then it's okay for me bcoz I want to feel this temporary thing lol for whatever time it would be lol... but I would never be hurt bcoz I knew it was temporary right , actually before my mental health was not so good like rn... so if this temporary thing is giving me a little bit peace ..then I'm okay with it lol.. but yeah I surely know it's temporary and I do not expect anything from our convos lol. Just watching a dream lol...it will get over .. but it's okay just lemme be in the moment of this dream for a while lol ..we already got a short life lol .
yo, come on, you're really gonna let yourself get all wrapped up in some dude online? 🤨 like, seriously? sounds like you're getting way too invested in a fantasy land. from what you're saying, it's like you're chasing after an illusion instead of focusing on what's real or legit. been there, done that, and it’s always the same old story – these things usually go nowhere. don't you think you're selling yourself short by spending all night chatting with him instead of doing something more productive? just sayin'. it’s like you're living for that next text when maybe you should be living for yourself. might wanna think about whether this 'obsession' is worth sacrificing your mental peace or sleep for.
it sounds like you're really enjoying this connection, which is wonderful 😊 however, it's essential to maintain a balanced perspective. online interactions can be thrilling, but they sometimes lack the depth and stability of face-to-face relationships. i once found myself in a similar situation, captivated by someone online, only to realize that I was missing out on the richness of my offline life. prioritizing your well-being and ensuring that this enthusiasm doesn't overshadow other important aspects of your life might be beneficial; nurturing a variety of interests and connections can lead to a more fulfilling and resilient sense of happiness.
it seems you're quite captivated by this online interaction, but perhaps it's wise to exercise caution. 😊 this level of obsession might cloud your judgment. i remember being infatuated with someone online once; the thrill can be exhilarating, but you must remain grounded. investing too much in these virtual exchanges can sometimes lead to disillusionment. maybe finding a balance between this newfound connection and other life priorities could be beneficial? nurturing real-world relationships and interests might offer you a more stable sense of fulfillment and joy; after all, a well-rounded approach is usually more sustainable.
it's kinda wild how these online connections can make us feel so alive. “absence makes the heart grow fonder,” right? it's like when i started talking to this person online and it felt like we were in our own little world. i know it can seem like you’re getting lost in it, but sometimes those conversations are just what you need to boost your mood 😊 still, gotta make sure it doesn't take over your whole life, you know? been there, and finding that balance is tricky but super important. just make sure you’re also keeping an eye on the bigger picture and not getting too caught up in just this one thing.
man, honestly, sounds like you're getting way too hooked on this online dude 😅 balance is key, my friend. "all that glitters is not gold," you know? i once got lost in some digital romance and it was a wake-up call. maybe take a step back and think about what's real and what's just digital noise; diving headfirst into this without a reality check might leave you disappointed. focus on offline pursuits too—trust me, they pay off in the long run and give you a more solid foundation.