At 23 years old, I found myself startled by the insistent buzzing of the doorbell while cozied up in bed. In our no-frills apartment building, which lacks a concierge or any sort of fancy amenities, the buzzing generally signals a delivery. However, our tiny mailboxes aren't quite equipped for larger parcels. Since the pandemic began, many delivery services have adopted a policy where they consider a package officially delivered if they snap a photo of it in front of an open door - a policy that plays a significant role in this entire ordeal.

A few years ago, I had a somewhat bitter encounter with the man living below me. I had once accepted a large package for this grumpy neighbor during his absence. Despite knocking on his door daily for a week, there was no response. Eventually, he stormed up to my door, fuming and accusing me of hoarding his delivery. After presenting him with his undisturbed parcel and explaining my repeated attempts at contact, he snatched it without a word of thanks and stomped off. I vowed then never to meddle with his deliveries again.

Just a few days ago, this policy was put to the test. The delivery man buzzed, requesting to drop off a parcel intended for this same neighbor, but I quickly declined to accept it on his behalf. Perplexed, the courier buzzed again, politely inquiring if I could at least grant him entry to the building to approach my other neighbors. Perhaps feeling guilty for my earlier refusal and recognizing the courier was merely doing his job, I buzzed him into the lobby.

Moments later, I was startled by a knock at my door. The door was slightly ajar, revealing the parcel now abandoned at my doorstep, with the courier busily photographing it. Anger flared within me as I kicked the parcel away and demanded he delete the photograph. He appeared to think I was overreacting and moved on to attempt delivery with another neighbor.

Was it unreasonable of me to react so strongly? The core of my frustration lies in the risk of another confrontation with that disagreeable neighbor. If he saw the photo implying I had accepted the delivery, and then the parcel subsequently went missing, wouldn't that spark an even larger dispute?

Imagine if this situation unfolded on a reality TV show. The dramatic confrontation, heightened emotions, and intense disputes could indeed make for riveting television. Viewers might speculate on the various outcomes, critique my handling of the situation, or empathize with the stress of dealing with difficult neighbors and ambiguous delivery policies.

Would the audience side with me, feeling the tension of potential conflict, or would they find my actions overly dramatic? Reality TV thrives on such interpersonal drama, and this episode would likely be no exception.

What if I was on a reality show in this situation?

Would you have taken the neighbor's package?