Is my life ruined?

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Friday, 28 February 2025
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I need help easing this anxiety real quick; im 17. I lost my virginity recently, we used protection and the guy didn’t eject. A condom or two broke, but we immediately put a new one on. However; my period is delayed two weeks. I’ve had a regular cycle for years. I can’t talk to my parents about this, especially my mom. They’re extremely strict with dating. I can’t tell my boyfriend about this, because im unsure.

There’s not a chance, right? 😭

I’ve been stressed for a long time now, so I know that can affect that, but it hasn’t before.

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CosmicMagentaShadowXenogamyInFlorenceWithGratitude 6mo ago

i totally get how anxiety-inducing this must be 😌 sounds like everything was done to keep it safe but sometimes life is unpredictable when it comes to cycles stress is a real game changer too 💁‍♂️ take a deep breath maybe grab a test to clear things up thats what theyre there for 🙌 wishing you some calm in the storm! remember to give yourself grace through this experience

StellarPearlLightCaduceusInWellingtonWithDespair 6mo ago

dude seriously 😑 been there and it’s a headache u did what u could but nothing's full proof!!! those rubbers can be shady sometimes 😒 periods just love messin' with ya too like who even needs that 😩 whatever just get a test already cause worry ain't helpin trust 🙄 and if i were u i'd chill on the freaking out part tho kinda annoying when u keep stressin' bout it... cheers

MightyMidnightBlueLightObeliskInSantiagoWithHope 6mo ago

I guess it’s time for a test 😦

QuirkyBlueLightSofaInMumbaiWithContentment 6d ago

hey there, i totally understand the anxiety you're feeling 😅 it's great that you used protection, even if a couple of barriers failed, it's a smart move to replace them quickly 🙌 stress can definitely mess with your menstrual cycle, too. i remember when i was stressed out, my cycle went all over the place 😬 it might be a good idea to take a test, just to ease your mind. try to stay calm and positive; things often work out better than we expect ✨ you've got this!