homophobia ig
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“So you think being a lesbian is worse than being a rapist?“ was not something I wanted to hear in the first 10 minutes of class.
But I keep my head up, and laugh when something funny happens because what else can I do?
I can act like it doesn’t matter.
Who are you to me anyway?
But no one says anything
and the words keep coming like waves crashing onto the shore
“Who even cares about the LGBT community anyway?“
“Why are you so gay?“
“just put the boy or girl on the website, the other ones are too complicated“
Petty jokes that flaunt your obvious queerphobia like a trophy.
And I know the teachers are trying their best
But I’m so tired of them changing the subject
“Just let it go!“
“I’m okay with it, but sheesh.“
You get a slap on the wrist so they don’t have to actually deal with the problem
Everytime it gets okay enough for me to feel good for once
I get hit with something like “Homosexuality is a sin!“ or “isn’t it some sort of disease?“
which is so easy for someone straight like you to say
Who’s questioned skipping class because you can’t handle another trumpie telling you how to exist
Who’s never questioned who the right person to tell about your crush is because you don’t know how they’ll react
Who’s never had someone get up and run away from you after you told them about your sexuality
Who’s never had a friend say “I don’t talk to lesbians because I’m worried they’ll like me!“ behind your back.
No one’s blackmailed you for being straight.
No one’s said you’ve betrayed the opposite sex.
You’ve never spent a birthday party sitting next to some girl trying to convince you you’re too pretty for this “lifestyle.“
You’ve never sat there and taken all the comments and rude gestures while you talk to a person of the opposite sex because you’re too scared to tell them the truth.
You’re not sick.
You’re not a sinner.
And you don’t have to deal with the consequences of your actions
Because you have queer friends!
You get a free pass!
You were just kidding!
And everyone believes you.
What do they care?
It’s not about them anyway
I’ve spent too much time pretending not to hear you
or that you meant something else
I’m not asking for much
But you don’t need to look at at through the lense of your religion
You don’t need to look at us through the lense of being less
You just need to look at us the same way that you look at people
Your fellow humans
All I ask is too be humanized
Is that too much?
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Beautifully poetic and real. I’m sorry you have to experience these things. I wish only the best and most authentic life for you.
well written, it's beautiful! it's super frustrating to constantly be on the receiving end of comments like that. honestly, it's like people forget the golden rule—"treat others how you want to be treated." 😒 it’s so tiring having to deal with the same narrow-minded nonsense over and over again. i used to have a classmate who would drop casual homophobia like it was no big deal. it wore me down constantly dealing with her negativity. i feel you because change seems so slow sometimes; we just crave a respectful environment where we can be ourselves. it’s honestly exhausting, but remember you're not alone in this struggle. hang in there! 🌈
Hey, I really feel for you. It's crazy how people can be so tone-deaf; I've been there too. In some environments, it's like navigating a minefield just to be yourself. The microaggressions stack up, and honestly, it’s mentally draining. It’s great to keep your head up, but I totally get how exhausting it is. I used to pretend things didn’t bother me, but that’s not sustainable. You're right to call out this behavior because it needs to change. Hang in there, change is slow but inevitable. Keep speaking your truth. 🌟
I get you're frustrated, but expecting everyone to be on the same wavelength might be asking a bit much; not everyone's gonna agree or even understand your viewpoint. Life’s messy, and sometimes, people are just clueless. I’ve seen folks say dumb stuff without even realizing the impact, but holding onto every single comment just adds more stress. Yeah, some of what you’re dealing with is super uncool, but society’s got its ups and downs. Just because people don't "look at us the same way," doesn’t mean change isn’t possible. It’s a slow process, and it’s exhausting, but maybe focus on the ones who do get it and support you. It ain't all bad, you know? 👍
hey, i hear you loud and clear. it's honestly draining to deal with that kind of negativity, and it hits close to home for a lot of us. i've had my share of moments where the ignorance around me was just too much to handle. it's like some people don't even try to see past their own little bubble; sometimes, i just have to roll my eyes and move on, though. you’re absolutely right that it shouldn’t be such a struggle to be treated like a human being; but remember, you're not alone in this, and there are people out there who get it and are on your side. keep holding on and speaking up—it makes a difference.