homophobia ig
The story
“So you think being a lesbian is worse than being a rapist?“ was not something I wanted to hear in the first 10 minutes of class.
But I keep my head up, and laugh when something funny happens because what else can I do?
I can act like it doesn’t matter.
Who are you to me anyway?
But no one says anything
and the words keep coming like waves crashing onto the shore
“Who even cares about the LGBT community anyway?“
“Why are you so gay?“
“just put the boy or girl on the website, the other ones are too complicated“
Petty jokes that flaunt your obvious queerphobia like a trophy.
And I know the teachers are trying their best
But I’m so tired of them changing the subject
“Just let it go!“
“I’m okay with it, but sheesh.“
You get a slap on the wrist so they don’t have to actually deal with the problem
Everytime it gets okay enough for me to feel good for once
I get hit with something like “Homosexuality is a sin!“ or “isn’t it some sort of disease?“
which is so easy for someone straight like you to say
Who’s questioned skipping class because you can’t handle another trumpie telling you how to exist
Who’s never questioned who the right person to tell about your crush is because you don’t know how they’ll react
Who’s never had someone get up and run away from you after you told them about your sexuality
Who’s never had a friend say “I don’t talk to lesbians because I’m worried they’ll like me!“ behind your back.
No one’s blackmailed you for being straight.
No one’s said you’ve betrayed the opposite sex.
You’ve never spent a birthday party sitting next to some girl trying to convince you you’re too pretty for this “lifestyle.“
You’ve never sat there and taken all the comments and rude gestures while you talk to a person of the opposite sex because you’re too scared to tell them the truth.
You’re not sick.
You’re not a sinner.
And you don’t have to deal with the consequences of your actions
Because you have queer friends!
You get a free pass!
You were just kidding!
And everyone believes you.
What do they care?
It’s not about them anyway
I’ve spent too much time pretending not to hear you
or that you meant something else
I’m not asking for much
But you don’t need to look at at through the lense of your religion
You don’t need to look at us through the lense of being less
You just need to look at us the same way that you look at people
Your fellow humans
All I ask is too be humanized
Is that too much?
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Beautifully poetic and real. I’m sorry you have to experience these things. I wish only the best and most authentic life for you.
well written, it's beautiful! it's super frustrating to constantly be on the receiving end of comments like that. honestly, it's like people forget the golden rule—"treat others how you want to be treated." 😒 it’s so tiring having to deal with the same narrow-minded nonsense over and over again. i used to have a classmate who would drop casual homophobia like it was no big deal. it wore me down constantly dealing with her negativity. i feel you because change seems so slow sometimes; we just crave a respectful environment where we can be ourselves. it’s honestly exhausting, but remember you're not alone in this struggle. hang in there! 🌈
Hey, I really feel for you. It's crazy how people can be so tone-deaf; I've been there too. In some environments, it's like navigating a minefield just to be yourself. The microaggressions stack up, and honestly, it’s mentally draining. It’s great to keep your head up, but I totally get how exhausting it is. I used to pretend things didn’t bother me, but that’s not sustainable. You're right to call out this behavior because it needs to change. Hang in there, change is slow but inevitable. Keep speaking your truth. 🌟
I get you're frustrated, but expecting everyone to be on the same wavelength might be asking a bit much; not everyone's gonna agree or even understand your viewpoint. Life’s messy, and sometimes, people are just clueless. I’ve seen folks say dumb stuff without even realizing the impact, but holding onto every single comment just adds more stress. Yeah, some of what you’re dealing with is super uncool, but society’s got its ups and downs. Just because people don't "look at us the same way," doesn’t mean change isn’t possible. It’s a slow process, and it’s exhausting, but maybe focus on the ones who do get it and support you. It ain't all bad, you know? 👍
hey, i hear you loud and clear. it's honestly draining to deal with that kind of negativity, and it hits close to home for a lot of us. i've had my share of moments where the ignorance around me was just too much to handle. it's like some people don't even try to see past their own little bubble; sometimes, i just have to roll my eyes and move on, though. you’re absolutely right that it shouldn’t be such a struggle to be treated like a human being; but remember, you're not alone in this, and there are people out there who get it and are on your side. keep holding on and speaking up—it makes a difference.
sounds like an incredibly tough environment to navigate. it's frustrating when people throw out inconsiderate comments without thinking about the impact on others. those microaggressions can really pile up and take a toll on your mental well-being; you shouldn't have to constantly justify your existence or feel less than because of who you are. it's encouraging to hear that you're keeping your head up despite it all, and it's important to keep advocating for yourself. remember, change often starts with these difficult conversations, and over time, perspectives can shift. keep being true to yourself, and hopefully, the atmosphere will eventually reflect a more inclusive and understanding mindset.
yo, I get you're upset, but seriously?? everyone ain’t gonna be on the same page as you all the time. it's a big world with lots of views, and not everyone's thinking the same; sometimes people just need time to catch up, ya know? it sucks to hear the ignorant stuff, but dwelling on it ain't gonna help. remember, there's good out there too!!! you gotta focus on the positive and keep pushing forward. chin up, things can get better when you least expect it!!!
hey, i totally hear you!!! it's tough dealing with all that negativity. people can be really thoughtless sometimes when it comes to understanding the LGBTQ+ community 😔 it’s like that saying, "ignorance is bliss," but mostly for them, not for those affected. trust me, you’re not alone, and slowly but surely minds are changing!!! keep being yourself; your courage can inspire others around you. sometimes it feels slow, but progress is happening!! hang in there! 🌈✨
hey, i get you're going through a tough time, and some of those comments really suck, but it seems like you're focusing a bit too much on the negativity and not enough on the bigger picture. while it's true that ignorance can be super frustrating, it's also important to remember that change doesn't happen overnight; people grow and learn at their own pace. it might help to try and focus on those who support you and understand where you're coming from. the world is full of diverse perspectives, and sometimes, it's more productive to pick your battles wisely to avoid unnecessary emotional exhaustion. keep advocating for yourself, but maybe try to balance it out a bit by putting energy into the positive interactions and allies you do have.
hey, i understand that you're feeling upset, and it's totally valid to be affected by negative comments, but focusing too much on the negativity might not be the best approach. it's essential to remember that “ignorance is bliss” for some, and change can be a slow process. perhaps directing your energy towards educating those around you could be more beneficial; sometimes people need guidance to understand different perspectives. also, try to focus on the support and acceptance that you do have. it can make dealing with the negativity a bit more manageable. hang in there, and keep advocating for a more inclusive environment. 😊
hey, i totally get that you're upset, and it's not cool that you're dealing with this stuff, but maybe focusing on it too much isn't the best move. sometimes it's easy to get caught up in the negative vibes and forget that not everyone is out to get you; "every cloud has a silver lining," right? i've found that sometimes it's better to educate those who don't get it rather than letting their ignorance drag you down. sure, it's annoying and feels like an uphill battle, but remember that change happens over time. keep your head up and focus on the positives because there are definitely people out there who support you and understand where you're coming from. keep doing you, and things will get better. 😊