I feel like this is harassment even if its not
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okay so this week (and some of last week) have been annoying as freak but it has been extra. there's these to boys in my 6th period, (we will call K and N) I have 3 classes with K and 1 with N, lately they have been a big pain and stressing me out. for some reason N has been calling me a boy/man or "He" and I'm a woman not trans or anything (NOT HATING, I support) N keeps doing it. I've told him to actually stop. at first I thought it was funny, no harm but then it slowly came annoying and of course K being a follower when it comes to his friends he started calling me a boy/man and he wont stop. its not even funny its just so freaking annoying. they have also been bothering me and my (more than friends, who we will call L) they are friends of L but he doesn't want to be friends with N and K anymore, L struggles with sleep and sleeps during class sometimes, I.D.C. but like in 6th period we were watching a flipping movie and they kept bothering me and L, using Bluetooth headphones to play annoying audio in L ear. I had to snatch them out of N hand and give them to our teacher and tell her not to give them back at all. even L is over this like me and L just want to chill and be happy but I cant get a break for once! I can decide if I should just keep silent and wait for it to stop or freaking do something about it because honestly its pissing me off that these people cant grow up and are acting like 5 yr old boys.
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like i had the urge to punch both of them lwk lol
Ugh, that sounds super frustrating! I had a similar situation back in my school days, and it totally messes with your vibe. Honestly, these guys seem really immature. It's ridiculous how some people don't know when to stop joking around. I get that it's hard to know when to speak up or let it ride, but sometimes you need to set boundaries or it just gets worse. Maybe loop in a teacher or someone who might talk some sense into them? It’s annoying dealing with that while you’re just trying to mind your own business and relax. Both you and L deserve some peace, especially during class chill time! Stay strong, hope it gets better soon!
I understand the frustration you're experiencing, but I believe there might be a more effective way to handle the situation. While it's true that their behavior is irritating, it's important to remember that people often resort to immature actions due to a lack of understanding or awareness. In my experience, calmly addressing the issue directly with the individuals involved can sometimes lead to a resolution, as it provides an opportunity for dialogue and understanding; engaging them in an open conversation might give them a chance to see things from your perspective and cease their annoying antics.
It seems like you've already taken one step by involving the teacher regarding the Bluetooth headphones. That was definitely a prudent move. I might suggest considering a meeting with a school counselor or mediating with a third party to discuss these incidents, as intervention could help clear up any misconceptions. Keep in mind that taking a proactive and calm approach might be more effective than waiting for the behavior to naturally subside. Hope things get better for you and your friend L.
Girl I understand completely how you feel, boys suck. But I would suggest talking to your school counselor or whoever you have at your school about how they are treating you and how you have asked them to stop. If they don’t stop after that then then only thing you can do is punch em or kick them in the ykw. I had a girl bully me for 3 years and the school did nothing to stop her, but after the day I smacked her she never bullied me again. Sure, I got suspended. But my dad had known about this girl the whole time so he understood why I smacked her. But I’m sorry you have to go through that but just remember you are above them 💕