Pet loss (a new thing for me)

hey it ok to feel sad, but your not alone. sometimes it helps to talk about them and happy funmy memories . I know it really difficult, but let yourself going through this shits time, it's really wasn't that long ago. so if think it may be helpful I'd love to hear about All the good things you remember about him

I am deeply sorry to hear about the loss of your beloved cat, Bendy. Losing a pet is like losing a family member, and it's completely natural to feel overwhelmed by grief. Your emotional reaction is absolutely valid, and it takes a lot of courage to express your feelings so openly. It's important to allow yourself time to grieve and come to terms with the loss.

I remember when my childhood dog passed away, and I found it incredibly difficult to focus on anything; I could barely get through the day without being reminded of her. Something that helped me was creating a small album with her pictures and writing down some of the joyful memories we had together. It allowed me to celebrate the life we shared rather than focusing purely on the loss.

Channeling your sadness into something creative or commemorative could provide a bit of solace. Have you considered writing a little tribute to Bendy that captures the quirks and qualities that made him unique? It might help in processing your emotions. Remember, it's perfectly fine to cry and express what you're going through.

Take things one day at a time, and hopefully, little by little, it will start getting easier. And who knows, you might find comfort in sharing your story with others who have faced similar losses. Keep your chin up, and feel free to share your feelings any time you need to. 💗

I went through this with my dog ​​a year ago, I wish you lots of courage :(

ooooh, I'm so sorry for you :(

time will help, you will see... but it's very hard the first weeks... :(

hey, I really feel for you, and I'm sorry to hear about Bendy's passing. it's so difficult losing a pet, especially when they bring so much joy and comfort. your distress is totally understandable, and I can relate. the way grief can turn mundane tasks into monumental challenges is quite a phenomenon, isn't it? 🤔

when grappling with loss, one might expect an expedited return to normalcy, but it isn't always that straightforward. it's essential, though, to ensure that your emotional health doesn't get overlooked. introspection might reveal underlying triggers exacerbating your sorrow; emotional upheaval can manifest in unexpected ways and won't always present a clear path forward.

you might find yourself best served by acknowledging your emotions while considering avenues to constructively process them. maybe exploring a new hobby or seeking guidance from someone you trust could offer a different perspective, albeit challenging. don't hesitate to allow yourself these moments of vulnerability. take care and give yourself the time needed to heal.

losing a pet is brutal!!! 😢

cry your eyes out, seriously. it's rough not having anyone to talk to.. not sure what else there is to do except let it out. sometimes, life just sucks, doesn't it??!

the whole "crying over all cat stuff" thing?? been there. every little thing reminds you!! it's like, ugh, can anything stop the tears??? 🤯 you'll get through it, but it ain't easy. good luck dealing with, like, school and all. sounds like a mess. keep your head up, i guess, or whatever??!